Rephrase Your Argument Controversy

Sometimes it can feel like your parents always win. It doesn't matter if you want a new game, an extra hour before curfew, or just to win a disagreement. This is probably one of the most common troubles a teen can have with their families. Luckily there are ten things you can try to win that next argument with Mom.

Rephrase Your Argument

Don't let yourself fall into the trap of anger by raising your voice and shouting. Keep your voice level. Channel your inner guru and stay calm while speaking. You'll sound more mature and reasonable.

If You Want It, Trade for It

Oftentimes arguments with parents have to do with something you want. Maybe it is new clothes, a new game, or a phone. These all cost lots of money. Instead of just asking and fighting when they

For those you will have to work to soften your parents up before hand. Before attempting such an argument make your parents happy. Take the trash out, for example. Or get your mother some nice flowers or candy. Maybe your dad would like his car washed. Basically make them as happy as you can before springing your needs on them. They just might say yes.

Listen as Well as Talk

Your mom and dad heard you out, now hear them out too. You don't have to like what they say, or even agree with it, but listening to their side makes them more likely to listen to you. Don't just wait till they stop talking so you can jump back in. Listen and think of ways to counter their arguments.

Lawyer Up

You've seen them on TV. See how they ask questions and only answer very carefully? Using some care in how you ask your questions and answer your parents can be just as useful for you as it is a defense lawyer.

You won't be able to win every argument. Sometimes you will lose your temper, or your mom will, and you'll end up grounded. If you follow these ten tips you might become better at getting what you want and not getting