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Often times failure takes a toll on one’s self. It may bring down one’s mentality and willingness to keep trying. In my 16 years of living, I have experienced success and failure. As a child failing would bring me down, but over time I began to realize that I can learn something from my failures and use it to improve myself.
Last year in June, I was a freshman in high school getting ready for my finals. I was most nervous about my literature final because I was having trouble getting good grades. For the majority of my classes, I aimed to get an ‘A’, but in literature, I just tried to maintain my average grade which was a ‘B’. The final test focused on a novel, so I were allowed to use the text in my book as evidence for our essays. In preparation for the test, I made notes for myself and annotated my book with sticky notes all day and night.
After hours of preparing for my test, I decided to go to sleep late at night. In the morning of that day, I went to take my test. Since there were several prompts assigned for the test, I rushed to get my work complete before an ninety minutes passed by. By the end of the class, I ended up not finishing my test but I knew that I tried my best before the test and during. I knew my grade would not be excellent because my test was incomplete, but I
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Knowing that the first letter a school sends home over the summer is the report card, I nervously teared open the end of the letter. After pulling out and unfolding my report card, I reacted with shock and disappointment. On my report card that had shown the result of my hard work, determination, and effort, I saw that I was a few numbers away from failing my final. I had worked so hard to do well or at least get a decent. At first, I was angry that I worked so hard for a horrible grade that people get when they do not try. I later realized that sometimes I need to accept failure in order to grow as a
Success and failure seem to be pretty distinct opposites, but many times the differences between success and failure aren’t as obvious as we may think them to be. Sometimes a failure can be turned into a success if you are willing to look back at them, and are open to learning from them. Many times, one’s attitude toward a failure can determine whether or not anything is learned from it. Those who remain upbeat and positive after a failure may be able to get something out of it, but those who just don’t think about it and ignore it won’t get anything from it.
And if it is true that the lessons we take from failure can be fundamental to later success then I am right. This is where my path to success really begins. It is never late to start again. Small things that aren’t so small can have a big repercussion in someone's life. We as human beings need to learn how to be more loving, respectful and compassionate. I am so proud to be who I am today because of this past experiences. I believe almost everybody has had a time in their lives in which they failed, nobody is perfect. Failure indeed can be fundamental to later success, but the expectations of success are not what people think, at least for me, but I certainly know I'm not
Failure can cause a torrent of mixed emotions and thoughts. One can begin to doubt their motives for even attempting to succeed at a certain task. Some people may choose to give up after failure, but there are a select few who rise up to the occasion and move forward to try and succeed no matter how many tries it takes. By overcoming those difficult moments in life, it gives a person a sense of accomplishment and pride and that alone is a beautiful thing.
How many times have you failed in your life? I bet it’s a lot. Have you ever let that bring you down and stop you from trying? Samuel McChord Crothers once said, “Try as hard as we may for perfection, the net result of our labors is an amazing variety of imperfectness. We are surprised at our own versatility in being able to fail in so many different ways.” We try as hard as we can to be perfect, but we never are, and never will be. We fail so many times, and in so many different ways. We have to grow and learn from our imperfections. This quote from Samuel McChord Crothers can be connected to my life, literature, and in the world and history around us.
The thoughts running around in my head were telling me that this essay might be a little better than the pre-assessment. After all, Mrs. Robinson had proclaimed she graded harder to teach us, but there were still doubts in my head. I thought to would write something personal, since that was what I was used to and it worked well for me. Upsettingly, I spent time on this essay but didn’t use all the resources to my benefit. I didn’t read it aloud after being finished and go back and check to see what I wrote made sense. Figured that out later
When I think about my past experiences of when I failed many scenarios come to mind. Us as humans beings are bound to fail at one point in life but its how you learn from them that makes it a fundamental. I came to a realization that all my past failures have played a huge role in my life, all of which have been either a lesson or an eye opener. The most vital scenario is when I failed to make the grade point average (GPA) required by my school to run track my first year entering high school. This event played a major role in my high school life.
The next morning, I performed horribly and filled my previous “A” grade with disappointment. The daunting experience left a bad taste in my mouth for exams during the upcoming summer. The brutal
Failure does not stop me At one point in my life, I experienced true failure. It was the summer before my freshman year in high school, I tried out for the Junior Varsity football team for the first time. Despite not missing any practices, saying and believing that I wanted to make the team more than anyone, my coach told me I was too small and could not protect myself against the other players on the field. I lost my jersey.
"Our greatest glory is not in never failing but in rising up every time we fall." These words by Ralph Waldo Emerso perfectly describe my feeling towards failure. Now this wasn't my mentality from the start; in fact, this way of thinking took time and some wise words from my parents. One experience that I recount as a failure was seventh grade tennis tryouts. Knowing that I had my faith in my hand, but being overconfident and arrogant was my demise. That particular incident had a mind altering effects on my mentality as a whole.
Failure is apart of life, it can make or break a person. When a person experiences a type of failure it is now up to them to see how they respond. They can choose the high road, and become a stronger person for it. Then they can choose the low road, the easy way out. The easy way out is never a good choice. It can lead only to destruction. The high road is the right choice to take when responding to failure. It will lead down a path of success. Jessica Lahey’s article, “When Success Leads to Failure” is an article that shows how kids are experiencing failure. Lahey says that, “these kids have a fear for failure, and that they have given up natural loves for learning. They are scared of not being successful”(Lahey). The truth is life is hard there will be failure. There is nothing in this world that comes easy to anyone.
Failure is an obstacle everyone faces during their lifetime. Everyone deals with failure differently. Choosing to succeed and not accepting failure allows me to fulfill my life’s dreams. How I choose to deal with failure in my life will determine my life’s success. Failing does not mean that I will not succeed.
I was quietly angry towards the fact I worked so hard by losing an immense amount of sleep and time that I should’ve used wisely for another class. But at least I wasn’t failing I had a decent grade. Although I didn’t get the A that I wanted in that course, I passed with a B for my final grade. As you can see I worked really hard to receive that grade and didn’t sob or supplicate to the teacher for an A that I know I didn’t deserve to
Thinking about school and grades again has also reminded me of my mother. I got back my biology exam yesterday and got a 90 on it. I was so happy because of the fact that the class was really difficult and there were lots of terms to memorize. More importantly, I thought my mom would commend me for studying hard and getting a good grade on this exam. Instead, she asked me why I didn’t get a perfect score on the exam.
Failure is a huge thing in life, if someone doesn't fail they never know what it truly feels like to succeed. In my life I've failed many times but I've been more successful because of every failure. A time of failure I am going to share is when I was being recruited by Vanderbilt University but my standardized test scores weren't high enough. I went on my unofficial visit to the school in April of 2015 and I remember talking to head coach, Darren Ambrose on the last day of my visit and he told me that as much as they wanted me to attend Vanderbilt, I wouldn't be able to attend unless I brought my scores up. I was crushed, I felt like I failed because my scores weren't high enough, I felt dumb.
Failure happens when something isn't successful. Failure is a thing that all people can learn from. Failures can be used as lessons so that the failure will not be repeated again. One of my greatest failures in life that I've experienced and learned from would be from the time of my first grade year. I didn’t take school seriously when I was in the first grade and made terrible grades. After this failure, it made change the outlook on school and I started trying. I learned that I need to take school serious or else I will do bad in school. This failure lead to success in school and I started making good grades which will help later on in life.