The Effects Of Findings On Interparental Conflict And Child Well-Being

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During the course of this assignment I realized I don’t know much about my family. There are a lot of secrets in my family that no one is ready to reveal or discuss. Much of the information I gathered was from Ancestry.com and my mother. The information I gathered from her was sketchy at best. She claimed not to remember or know a lot of the questions I asked her but I could tell she just didn’t want to talk about it. Growing up in the military kept me from forming bonds with the other members of my family so I am not really close with them. Asking them about our heritage wouldn’t be much help anyway, as we have different grandfathers and they consider themselves Black Italians. It was a little depressing to realize that other than the …show more content…

“Findings on interparental conflict and child well-being illustrate this interde-pendence, with exposure to harsh, destructive conflict patterns between parents associated with a range of detrimental effects on children; these effects appear both concurrently and cumulatively over time, as well as across all developmental stages” (Barton, Beach, Kogan, Stanley, Fincham, Hurt & Brody, 2015). This was especially true for me in my adolescence when like most kids who live in this type of environment I became depressed started withdrawing. I began to distrust people and keep them at arms length. Only letting them get s close to me, as I felt safe. I thought I had escaped the ill affects of her relationship dysfunction until I decided it would be a good idea to divorce my husband of 10 years because I wanted to “sew my wild oats”. I believe this theme and pattern of dysfunctional relationships has not only affected the women in my family, but the men as well. They are no more successful in relationship than the women are. I think it has not only affected how the family as a whole deals with romantic relationships, but relationships in general. We don’t get a long with each other and there is very little trust and loyalty. In fighting and jealous has caused the family to drift apart. Now with the loss of my grandmother I don’t think we will be able to come together as a

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