Examples Of Toxic Masculinity

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The Toxic Masculinity What do you think are the traits that every man should have? Many people feel like men should possess the very stereotypical masculine qualities, that often include exuding strength, emotionless and even violent. There is a pressure that society puts on men to conform to these masculine behaviors. However, this pressure can result in a very toxic masculinity that can result in violent outbursts. From an early age, these ideals of manliness are often forced onto the youth, and this can impact them adversely for the rest of their life. This impact can be drastic in shaping both their character and themselves. Many men learn to strive to be what some would think of as a “manly man” which can include being strong, tough and violent. However, this pressure to obey a manly stigma has some heavy effects on men in daily life. Many men meet this pressure by putting up a false front, a type of tough disguise. This false front allows them to act the way society tells them a man should, to act tough. It is this false front that creates an extremely negative impact on men as they follow ideals that pushes them towards a toxic masculinity. …show more content…

Even children’s toys are influencers to masculinity. Men are facing an ever-increasing demand for male perfection in society's eyes. Almost all media sources show men that they must be extremely muscular, all bulk and no smarts. In recent years this pressure is only growing; just take a GI Joe toy, for example. It is no secret that the physique of these toys is extremely unrealistic, and they are only becoming increasingly demanding in appearance. According to Harrison G. Pope Jr in the Journal of the American Medical Association the ideal male image has become increasingly

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