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When I was 29 years old I had my first child in grade school so I ended up leaving so I could have my child and be a mother to my son Kyle. When he turned two and the twins were already three I started to search for a good grade school that I felt was good for me because I still wanted to be a mother, work and get an education. I wanted to go back to school to get my masters degree when I found a school I liked I had to apply and get accepted so I could attend I ended up going to University of Maryland University College. When I started I already knew I had to take around 2-3 years worth of classes like financing and ethics but also had to pay a lot and make sure it worked with my family. When I started grade school it was stressful because
Three years ago my life drastically changed when my husband of 19 years decided he wanted a divorce. I had always been a wife and a mother and only worked part time through the majority of my marriage. Having married at 19, I never thought too much about going to college. I always thought I wanted to be a stay at home mom and never thought too much about what my life would be like once the children grew into adulthood. Now, at 41 years old, I realize how horrible a decision I made by not getting my college education sooner. Trying to go back to school while working full-time and raising two kids on my own is not fun. It’s a struggle to find that right balance of being a good student but also being a good mom. I want to make my kids proud
Throughout high school and during my undergraduate studies, education was never a top priority for me. Only during the past two years, in the "real world", have I realized the importance of education. I look back at those years and wish I had done more and realized all the potential I had in my hands and not wasted so much time. During my undergraduate career my social activities consumed my life. My friends were not motivated to do well in school so I followed their lead. My grades were low, and I did not even care. After I graduated in 1997 with a Psychology B.A. and lost touch with my old friends and old ways, I have realized that I should have spent more time doing some soul searching and thinking what it was that I wanted to do with my life. I liked Psychology but what I really wanted to do was work with children more closely. I had spent my junior and senior years involved in internships at Head Start and at a High School in a Program for teenaged mothers. I loved my work there. At Head Start I was a Teacher Aid for the pre-school, teaching the children to read, numbers etc. And at the High School I counseled the teenaged mothers, took care of their kids while they went to school and after the school day I tutored them with their homework. After being out of school for a while, I started to miss that. The feeling that I was teaching something those kids, the feeling that I was making a difference. I was determined to find a job in education, with my background in Psychology, how hard could it be? I found work at a residential school for runaways and abused teenaged females. It was great! I was ready to go, I was going to change the world and change those girls lives. What I didn't realize is that will alone does not make me a teacher and that I needed training, a lot of training. I made a lot of mistakes in that job. I got discouraged and decided to forget about working with children, forget teaching and do something else that paid more. So, I got a job as a Secretary, I did that for about two years. Teaching, working with children was always on my mind.
My journey to higher education spans 24-years and combines two passions, teaching and EMS (emergency medical services). This journey began in 1986 with a suburban kindergarten class of 25 in Memphis, TN. Eleven years later no longer am I teaching school-age children; instead, I am delivering training programs to EMS providers as well as the medical community. Today, I combine both passions to offer students authentic experiences through which to obtain proficient skills in written and oral communications, critical and analytical thinking, problem solving, as well as in negotiation and conflict resolution skills as they prepare for rewarding
I came back to the Lutheran Seminary in 2012 after a having a conversation with man that would later become a mentor to me. At his prompting along with many others I made a decision to enter into the ordination process of the ELCA. For me that brought mass levels of trepidation as I had heard horror stories of that process. It became another entity in my life where value becomes evident by participation. I knew the work that would be required and I decided to make that plunge.
It was a rough start at first because of the multitude of changes that occurred all at once but I was determined and knew I could do it. I had lots of support from my family and they helped me get through the transition of being in school again. Although what I took as support
As the end of my senior year in high school approached, I had to make an important decision. What school was I going to spend the next few years of my life at? When the financial aid packages arrived, I was torn between two colleges. After sitting down with my mother and discussing the advantages and disadvantages of both schools, I came to my final decision. It seemed like a year ago I was imagining what college life would be like and suddenly before my eyes, I would be a college student in a matter of four months.
Until my junior year, I hated school. My mom would have to drag me out of bed in the mornings, some days I would just stay home and refuse to go to school. I used to get into lots of trouble in school and I had trouble passing my classes. When I would get behind I would give up right away and just quit trying. I hated going to school, especially after my hospital and rehab stays. I could feel everyone looking at me and I knew they were judging me. People were mean. I went to quite a few schools because of my drug use, behavioral issues and my “I don’t care” attitude.
Another hard decision was going back to college to earn a degree. I have been dealing with this issue since I have graduated high school. I wanted to go to college, but there were a few things setting me back. I have bad anxiety being around a lot of people. When I went to orientation at Western Univerity, I was completely petrified and walked out. I applied a couple years later to another college but soon found out I was pregnant with my first child. So I didn't attend. Now I have two little ones but I had to make the dicision to go back to school. It is difficult raising to kids having a dead end job. I am not saying that it is easy going tosc...
First and foremost, this class brings a sign of releaif. The thought of graduating in a mere five weeks amazing. I have being on my education journey at King University since the beginning of 2015. Thus, having a family of 7, working full-time, tend to make college a challenge that I can almost say, I have conquered. To be honest, I have enjoyed every minute.
Up until then I had been homeschooled. Life seemed much simpler when I didn’t have to get up at a certain time early in the morning every day just to go to school, but somehow I adjusted. I remember that first year of school here as if it was just yesterday. I was just like the typical confused 7th grader except I was in 8th grade. I didn’t know where the classes were and I didn’t know when the classes were. I would just follow my classmates around until I learned the schedule which eventually happened and the school became a part of my life. The early mornings, the basketball games, the long road trips all became a part of who I am today. Those memories will stay with me for the rest of my
Junior year I took the early childhood course and got my certification. I knew from 8th grade that would be the career I wanted. Junior year I got my first job at subways and it was working out but just as I was getting used to the scheduled I had I was in a terrible hit and run accident and I missed a lot of school. That accident set me back a lot I had finally an SAT testing. When I went back to school I had to wear a neck brace, already having ADHD made school hard enough but being restricted by the brace made it harder. Suddenly studying and focusing in class seemed impossible. When sat came around I still had the brace while I was recovering from head trauma as well so that didn’t make matters easy. I was uncomfortable and couldn’t concentrate and I became more aggrieved and annoyed and giving up seemed like my best option at that point. When the end of the year came I was relieved but I knew coming back senior year how hard school would be. Work wasn’t easy either I
My interest to attend UMD dates back to when I heard my brother say, “If you get in, you are in the best school in the state!” After watching him graduate from College Park in 2008, I had decided that I wanted to attend UMD from then on because of the beautiful campus and diverse environment that welcomes everyone. When I saw my brother walk across that stage, I thought to myself “How great would it be if I walk across that stage one day and make my parents proud?” and ever since I have dreamt of attending UMD. That moment changed my life and to this day I dream of attending UMD to walk across that stage and my family watching me get my degree, just like my brother.
If you were to have asked me my senior year in high school what were my plans after graduation, I would have told you in detail what my plans were. I was planning on attending college starting my own daycare and settling down. Well things didn’t go as planned in fact they took a whole different path. After graduating high school, I was planning on attending college but because of personal and financial issues I was not able to. I decided that I was going to take two years off and work and then attend college. After working two full time jobs for two years I was finally ready to go back to school. My parents never attended college so this was all new to us. Finding the right program learning how to sign up for classes was all very new. Although it was tough getting started I was finally all signed up for classes. With working so much I did not feel the need to apply for financial aid I was just going to pay it myself. Although at times it is stressful to make the payments I have managed to pay them working part time during the school year and full time during the summer. I am now on my fourth semester here and can happily say that I have paid for every semester with my own hard work. I am graduating in May with my diploma in Early Childhood and will return in the fall to complete my AA to graduate in December and couldn’t be happier with where I am. Although my plans aren’t what I thought they
I was depressed and felt lost and for the first time in my life didn’t have my biggest supporter pushing me or giving me the advice I needed to hear. I didn’t quit school and ended up graduating early and being offered a full-time job right out of school.
I would have to say if I had to do it all over I would not make it back through the grade I am currently in. My experience was a brutal one due to having little to no educational help in the academic subjects which we were learning. Much of the instructors to my opinion were not good at their job or just not making good efforts to educate the children in an efficient way. In English I mainly struggled with writing cursive and punctuation. Within the first five years of my educational career I did not really struggle in the main core subjects.