I have a question!!!
How many of you wives would put everything in storage to bewith your husband??? Meaning giving up your home "renting" for your child to see daddy every night to be able to give good night kisses to and for you to have your protector, best friend and soul mate every day/night...
I am one of them wives I sacrifice my wants/needs to see my baby girl happy and for her to have her daddy every night...I'm not losing anything by doing this. I'm gaining, gaining strength in my marriage and friendship...
My husband looked at me tonight and asked are we doing the right move? I looked at him and asked what he meant. He said everyone is going to look down on us and talk mess. Why should we care what others think!? We will have a roof over our head, food in our belles, hot shower and a bed to sleep on. If people truly cared about us three they would text us to check in on us or stop by to visit us. People say e have them but I all reality we don't. We have each other Ben McKynlee and i. Going on the road will benefit us in so many ways. Of we put God first and have him I'm our relationship anything is possible.
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How many of you wives would put everything in storage to be with your husband??? Meaning giving up your home "renting" for your child to see daddy every night to be able to give good night kisses to and for you to have your protector, best friend and soul-mate every day/night...
I am one of them wives I sacrifice my wants/needs to see my baby girl happy and for her to have her daddy every night. I'm not losing anything by doing this. I'm gaining, gaining strength in my marriage and
“If a woman feels disappointed and trapped in her mother role, it is bound to affect her marriage in any number of ways.” I agree with this statement because having children prohibits you from doing certain things on the daily basis. Unless of course you have staff on hand 24 hours a day. I would be able to get up and go whenever it is needed. I would also be able to focus on the house or certain areas of my life. I would be able to do more things that I enjoy. “Often when the stork flies in, sexuality flies out.” This statement is true in my mind. When having children it is difficult to even feel sexy. People dress down to feel more comfortable chasing around the little ones. I put on tennis shoes instead of the cute wedge heels collecting dust in the
...place for women evolve, I think the traditions of family and public child care should help to evolve with them. As husbands and wives taking in the housework equally, to help iron out the stress within their lives, couples should evolve to interconnect with each other in a way where they see themselves more as equals who both are working and supporting each other rather then opposites who are assigned to only work to bring money in as the other does everything else around the house
Most of them point out that the support of their husband helps them get more confidence when making decisions for themselves and solve aspirational shames (88 comments equivalent to 15.14%). They can share household duties together or hire a housekeeper, then the wife has more time to care about themselves and their careers. If the husband cannot sympathize and support for their dreams, women are willing to leave their marriage life or find another who have more understanding.
In my eyes I feel we are still very much my ideal. My dad is the sole provider, and he have me and my little brother to take care of. The only thing that missing is my mom and I’m not in misery. Yes it would be nice to have my mom in the house with me but what people fail to realize is you cannot choice the cards you are dealt with you just have to take them and play them from there.
Being a wife or a mother automatically comes with an enormous amount of responsibilities; as times have changed these expected responsibilities of mothers and wives have changed as well. These caretaker roles women play have come to define them and what they represent in society. Unfortunately to this day despite their immeasurable hard work women are still recognized as disposable material, unequal to men. But this does not under any circumstance demean the enormous accomplishments these wives and mother are capable of.
“God, as her Father, brought the woman to the man, as his second self, and a help meet for him. That wife, who is of God 's making by special grace, and of God 's bringing by special providence, is likely to prove a help meet for a man.” Being that women were created for men in the purpose of marriage, it is important for us to know what marriage is. Biblically, marriage is shown as “a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.” Of course, marriage comes with more instruction than leaving your parents and further responsibility. The bible instructs “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” Along with instructing “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.” These tasks can be easy to understand but can seem impossible to act on at times. Family Ministry used to strengthen and educate marriages of various kinds is critical for today’s families, which make up our
Being a wife or a mother or both is hard work, especially with the ideals that society sets before them. In the satirical article I Want a Wife written by Judy Brady, Brady portrays the thoughts of man about the perfect wife and mother. Throughout out the piece there are examples of real life couples in our minnial society wanting certain characteristics of a wife. A wife is expected to do many things based around her children including, ¨When I am through with school and have a job, I want my wife to quit working and reamian at home so that my wife can more fully and completely take care of my wife’s duties¨ (Brady 505). A wife is expected to stay at home for her children and her husband because it is her ¨wifely
As a wife, mother and friend I will maintain the close relationships I have with each by making regular quality time for them. I will choose to embrace their ideas, choices, and dreams even if they may differ from my own and dedicated to supporting them in those. Continue setting
Staying at home and taking care of the children, whose role between husband and wife is it? It has always been the women who stayed home and took care of the children. Who is to say that the father staying at home and the mother entering the workforce is not okay. With this day and age the amount of fathers staying home taking care of children is increase. Of course with a change a parenting roles it can have an affect on the family dynamics. Culture and society to help create these stigmas and roles that women are to stay home while the men are the breadwinners of the family. In some cultures the sbad staying at home isn’t something that is socially accepted or something that is a common thing. So, a change of dynamic may cause problems between
Many men believe that women should stay at home and take care of the children. Which is in no case a bad thing; however, it is not a bad thing for a woman to be the breadwinner in the marriage and to have a dream and ambition as well. We have grown up in a society where the standards of the American family are to keep the man strong and masculine and keep the women needy and boxed in. Boxed in because women are also told how they should dress and act in public. Women believe they have to dress or carry themselves a certain way in order to attain a man and
Banquet Speech Good evening everyone. I’d like to first start off by thanking all of our wonderful booster club and parents for making this banquet possible. I’d also like to thank all the family members and friends in attendance tonight for joining us on this special occasion, I hope you all get a taste of this program and how much of an impact it has had on each of us tonight.
I believe we will decide on if we move or not based on if the benefits outweigh the costs. If it will benefit the whole entire family then we will move, if not then we don’t move. We will have to consider the friends and family we will leave behind. But all in all we will make the decision together. I believe that making the decision together is more practical
I am extremely happy and honored to be able to give this short speech in my oldest brother’s wedding. Today, i am able to witness, be here, and to congratulate my brother ANTHONY and his beautiful wife, GISELLE on their marriage. I have always believed that there is someone out there for everyone and today, ANTHONY has found who he calls his soulmate, GISELLE. The first time I met GISELLE, I knew that I was going to accept her and get along very well with her because of her personality. I was sure and positive that GISELLE was the one for my brother just by seeing how happy he was around her.
Sorry this was written the day of, but I was behind on picture hunting: 12 years ago you entered my world. Today, you and I celebrate our 11th year of marriage. We might have not have had the best 11 years. We fought, and you cried. All more than we should have.
Husbands need to be involved with the children and household chores, there needs to be balanced. Adrienne Rich, article "Anger and Tenderness" stated, "I waited with impatience for the moment when their father would return from work, when for an hour or two at least the circle drawn around mother and children would grow looser..."(p.23). It can be selfish for a mother to detach themselves from their position because the more it helps to relieve the stress, anger, and tenderness that she is dealing with at the moment. She needs time for herself to rejuvenate from her busy day, in need of support from her spouse. From a man's perspective, they are different from a woman's perspective because doesn't have to be with the children 24/7. They don't have firsthand experience in caring for the children, It would be helpful if the husband could take equal priority in taking care of the children once in a while. Being a mother can be hard for most women because they don't have time for themselves. Adrienne Rich stated, "We spoke of our own moments of murderous anger at our children, because there was no one and nothing else on which to discharge anger" (p.24). The anger that a mother kept inside herself will be forced upon the child because when a woman is with their child all day she doesn't have anybody to talk to or to relieve their