Humorous Wedding Speech

now:

A) I am grateful you for instilling the need that I now have of appreciating love, the importance of loving someone and the experience that it brings when you're also loved. The best of all, the vulnerability of what love has to offer because I know what rejection feels like since I never heard or felt "love" from you.

B) I thank you for the hunger you instilled in me in always being and getting the best, to never settle for anything but that so that I could not experience what you put my mother through in my own marriage.

C) If you had been the father that I wanted and needed at the time, then I would never have discovered how to be such a strong willed person. Thank you for being what you represent in my life and for that I'm truly

Now it's time to confront every source of pain one by one and release yourself and others from the once painful experiences. When you forgive yourself and others, it speeds up your healing and leaves more room to allow new experiences to flow towards you. You forgive completely and allow forget the hurt it brought to you, the memory of the experience never leaves but it no longer cause you pain. The reoccurrence of being hurt by the same things are slim to none when you truly forgive.

When you can forgive your own father for never saying I love you not a single day, for not protecting you from the dangers that life presented while growing up by teaching him how to unconditionally love. It's easy to forgive someone when you love them but when there is no love or connection that's when forgiveness is needed. Be in a state of forgiving the unforgivable and love the unlovable no matter what.

I'm sorry for the damage that I caused, please forgive for the pain that I caused you. I was emotionally and verbally abusive, I used you as a container for my rage, the rage against my own father. That's what I had to say to say to someone so that I could also be forgiven as well as forgive