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Sometimes we decide to remain silent and ignore whats going on around us even when we know we are wrong.It's possible that when we stay quiet instead of talking, we can potentially be hurting ourselves or neglecting our responsibility to speak and make a difference in our surrounding.
We will never be able to communicate adequately if we never practice our skills of proper communication.The most important thing is to know when to speak. Many times people prefer not to talk even when is necessary. An example can be when we try to explain our point of view, the way we think or our opinion about something with others in a way that they can comprehend. Due to fear and insecurities, people decide to remain silent. We must ignore the feeling of being afraid or concern that we are going to hurt the other person, we must speak openly and convey a clear and direct message. Expressing with words to those around us how we feel and remaining very involved in everything that we understand is important to us. By choosing to not speak during times that is necessary for us to talk is not an option. There are many reasons to explain why is very important for us to stand and talk about what's in our mind is very crucial and necessary for our emotional health and well being.
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But remaining silent is also a way of expressing ourselves.Sometimes by remaining in silence, we can be sending the message that we don't care, and our lack of input can also be a negative form of communication. If you disapprove and don't say anything, it will not make you seem easy going. If you never voice your concern about a situation you can also be considered to be a part of that negative case, you are also become guilty of it by making a deliberate decision to ignore it and stay
“I am obsessed with silence because of the silence of the world. I do not understand why the world was silent when we needed its outcry. I always come back to that problem. Where were the humanists, the leaders, the liberals, the spokesmen for mankind? The victims needed them. If they had spoken up, the slaughtered would not have succeeded in his task.” - Elie Wiesel
Miscommunication is a struggle that lives within the world everyday. Being able to understand what another person is trying to convey is an essential part of the way humans interact with one another. When a message is not translated correctly from person to person conflict arises and heated battles rage within a relationship; whether it is a mother and daughter, or two quarreling lovers, or strangers upon the street. All humans are created differently, with diverse upbringings, perspectives, and mindsets. Particular forms of communications may mean different things to various people. When talking about the concept of miscommunications, one must also address the concept of communication itself.
Communication is the foundation of any society. Humans are interactive beings that must communicate in order to survive. Humans develop communication skills as infants; learning to yell when something is needed, cry when something is painful, and smile when feeling happy. As babies age they learn words; eventually learning to compose sentences allowing them to express their feelings or desires. Humans finally learn to communicate within different parts of their life with different forms of communication such as letters, spoken, visual, and more. As one ages, they become aware of the different rules of communication used with certain people and situations; such as learning to speak to a teacher in a different manner than how one talks to their friends. While doing this, people are unconsciously starting to learn how to conform in the different discourse communities. Discourse communities are an essential part of life, and learning to communicate in those communities is just as vital.
This part of the statement is too absolute. Silence can be beneficial. There needs to be active movements against evils. Martin Luther King Jr. was not known for his silence. This statement says it is better sit in silence than to attack the evils of the world. By speaking out things can happen. It is better to be known in your lifetime than to be like Emily Dickinson and have all your works published posthumously. The benefits of speaking outweigh anything. It may be true that actions speak louder than words, but the action requires communication. Communication is the base of any action even in a revenge plot. In the novel, the count had to establish himself in the aristocratic community in Paris before he could enact his revenge plot of tearing people apart from the inside out. Though there can be excess talking leading to useless rambling, it is better to communicate to solve the evils of the world than to sit in silence.
Communication is key is any society. If we were unable to communicate with one another then how could our society grow and get better.
For starters, communicating effectively helps people know that you are listening when they address you. For example, body language is a great way to tell someone you are listening to their conversation. It is rude to text and turn your back to the speaker while they’re talking. However, If people are not communicating to you, kindly ask them to stop and to listen to your statement. We should
Communication involves the exchange of messages and is a process which all individuals participate in. Whether it is through spoken word, written word, non-verbal means or even silence, messages are constantly being exchanged between individuals or groups of people (Bach & Grant 2009). All behaviour has a message and communication is a process which individuals cannot avoid being involved with (Ellis et al 1995).
Communication is something we all humans use. Communication “is the sharing of information between individuals by using speech”. People have ways of communicating some have their weaknesses in conversations and others have their strengths. When I communicate with others I feel that some things I say I do not verbalize right. I have two strengths and three weaknesses in my communicating. My three weakens in my communication are, check nonverbal feedback, to make people wrong and recognize that people understand information in different ways and my two strengths in my communication are being flexible, and take responsibility for the communication.
The answer to these questions are effectively given in this TED talk, How to speak up for yourself by Adam Galinsky. The main argument of this talk is that we do not speak because we lack of perspective and we need to gain that perspective in order to deal with social awkwardness and the hurdles of not speaking up. Adam is a social psychologist so he guides people through effective use of rhetorical devices
A person could increase openness when appropriate by self-disclosing, answering spontaneously and truly to individuals with whom that individual is interacting, and have possession of his or her own moods and thoughts. There are many advantages and risks to this form of communication. I have had times where I lacked in this behavior. There have also been times where I used openness with the wrong means. Here, I will explain openness while giving personal experiences of when I lacked in this form of communication and how I could fix it. Openness is a great thing to obtain while communicating with others in more than just conversation.
Words are powerful tools of communication and interpersonal skills. Having the ability to communicate effectively is the most important of all life skills. This life skill is most important because it is very essential for building relationships, whether it personal or impersonal; be it verbal or non verbal. It’s a way in which to express ones feelings, thoughts, and
to all. Communication and building relationships rely heavily on being able to vocalise our thoughts
Speaking is a natural ability given to most reluctant individuals. Since the beginning of time, it has been assumed that we have a right to speak and use words, thus we naturally begin our development of language during the early stages of live. After years of grasping and perfecting our vocabulary and language, it seems unnecessary to study the purpose of our development. Why, then, should we study “oral communication?” There are many purposes, benefits, and institutions that branch from oral communication. Of course, communication is the basis of interaction with other individuals through the use of expressions and words; however, through studying oral communication, one can take the words and expressions being used and apply them to his or her own life. After all, the most effective and useful knowledge is applied knowledge.
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One of the main aspects in communicating is listening. An effective listener is one who, not only comprehends how the speaker feels but, also understands what they are stating. Building a strong connection between the speaker and the listener is one of the first steps to become a good listener. By building this connection speakers should first be in an environment with open minded listeners, it makes them feel more comfortable to state their opinions, feelings and ideas. Listeners should avoid being judgmental. The individual does not have to agree with the ideas, values or opinions of the speaker; however, to fully understand them, one must put aside their criticism. Speakers will believe that they can trust the listeners with their information when they know that they will not be judged. Miscommunication happens frequently, listene...