What Is Utilitarianism?

Utilitarianism - To put Utilitarianism into my own words, I would phrase is as whichever causes less damage in the end.
EX: If I was faced with a choice of choosing whether to kill one person and save 10 or kill 10 to save one, I would kill the one person because it causes less damage and saves more lives in the end.
Deontology - I would phrase Deontology as the focus of good or bad, or what would the outcomes or consequences be for two different senarios.
EX: If I was faced with stealing formula so my child could eat, or letting my child starve because I can't afford their food, I would definitely steal the formula because the outcome of stealing wouldn't be as bad as facing the fact that I let my child starve.
Virtue - This I would put

as the devil or angel on your shoulders.
EX: If you have a history of bad doings in your record of course you are going to be looked at more as a criminal, but if you have a history of good and get caught doing a bad thing the judgement theory is going to play a little bit more in your favor of second chances.
Relativism -To put this as simply as possible for me, I would define it as your faith or belief that something is good or bad or right or wrong.
EX: In america some of us get grossed out by the mere smell of poop or having to touch it is like you are reaching for a big bowl of spiders. Point is it is not in our moral belief that it is essential to even come near feces ecpecially animal dung because we don't know where it has been, but in India and other countries they use cow feces mixed with mud and water as a source of concrete for architecture or design on walls.
The theory that sounds most promising to me is Deontology and Virtue, because Deontology talks about helping someone out or making the up most sacrifice to keep food on the table for your family. And Virtue discusses how before you judge someone based on one screw-up look at their past and see if they have had any issues before the one incident.