Theodore Twomby

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In the film “Her”, directed by Spike Jonze, we follow the life of Theodore Twomby, a lonely and sensitive man trying to figure out what he wants in his life. After recently separating from his wife, he is hesitant to begin another relationship. Theodore comes across an intelligent computer operating system (or OS) named Samantha. Her conscious human-like capabilities allow her to communicate with Theodore, assist him throughout his daily life, and sense his feelings. After a failed blind date, he finds comfort in Samantha’s empathizing and compassionate personality, and eventually begins to create a romantic relationship with her. As the film progresses, we can see the development of Theodore from being an isolated and sad person into a sociable, …show more content…

We perceive him as a sensitive, emotional, and soft-spoken individual. Gender’s role in Theodore’s development can be attributed to a non-conventional masculine character which is contributed by his environment. His job requires a certain level of emotion and sensitivity to be able to craft personalized letters for people who are unable to use their own words to write them; like an emotional surrogate. Ciulla says we choose work based on the things that we want, need, and are willing to give up (2011). This work environment may add to the isolation and instability that Theodore feels and looks to regulate. In addition, the majority of the people that he associates himself with are women. This can lead to development of a more feminine and sensitive being. Theodore and Amy, seem to share similar characteristics; their humor, mannerisms, and emotional understanding of each other. Lastly, Samantha's role in their relationship shows her to be the more assertive and stable partner – something that may be typical of a male in a heterosexual relationship. Social constructivist theory focuses on how people construct meaning, a sense of self, and a social world through their interactions with each other. They learn, through their interactions, to classify the world and their place in it. People interact with each other and the physical world based on shared meanings, or shared understandings about the world. The emphasis …show more content…

This sense of individuality can be troubling for a client; because it is so unique they alone have unacceptable problems, thoughts, impulses, and fantasies (Yalom, 2005). Social workers are told to ‘meet the client where they are’; according to Hutchinson, social constructionist have given new meaning to this term (2010). In social constructionist perspective, the therapeutic relationship begins with developing an understanding of how the client views the situation and specifying what the client’s goals are (Hutchinson, 2010). It focuses on a medley of interventions such as solution-focused, narrative, and storytelling therapies (Hutchinson, 2010). As a social worker, I would want to focus on the present state of Theodore as his journey through the film took many turns for the better and

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