The Pros and Cons of a New Baby

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Introduction

Children are the pride and joy of many homes, but often parents’ struggles to meet the needs of their children. Some two-parent income home has been cut into a single parent home, due to divorce, lost of jobs, redundancy at work, and one parent leaving their job to become full time parents. With financial strains comes distress and discomfort in the home when the main breadwinner is unable to meet the needs of his or her family. For some families, nuclear, extended, or single parent, the birth of a baby brings tremendous joy and happiness. However, in some circumstances new birth can have a negative impact on the family. The birth of a baby can cause emotional strain and detachment, financial difficulties and sibling rivalry.

I will use the double –strand metaphor to organise my paper. First, I will look at the pros and cons of a new baby within a two-parent family compared to a single parent home. This paper will also look at home postpartum depression affect the family after birth. This paper will explore and examine how new births changes the dynamics of the family, mother and father as well as older or younger siblings. Finally, I will give recommendation on how to prepare for new birth as well as coaching siblings to be accepting to newborn within a family. I will also be discussing the role social workers can play in assisting families who are expecting new born. The main purpose of this paper is to present a model in which the negative and positive aspects of new birth are highlighted and in my model, I will explore how childrearing is impacted by mother and father. As well as, the emotional jealous that is likely to transpire from a father and sibling when the baby is born.

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