Dreams of Trespass follows the story of a young girl, Mernissi, who was raised in a conventional Moroccan harem that holds realms of enchantment and disparage. Through her day to day life trifles of the harem life are shown. In Mernissi's growing up she is taught by her surrounding elders about the hudud that is often refereed to as the “sacred frontier”. This frontier is expected to be respected out of custom for Muslims. Disrespecting the hudud was to earn sorrow and unhappiness. The hudud though was composed of different kinds of frontiers inside life in the harem some being visible and some not. All of these frontiers were desired to be breached by many women though aforementioned to be an act of transgression.
Mernissi constantly questions the elders in her life, her mother and aunts who all shut her down from asking questions. Some of her questions seem to hold little or no importance and that they are just those of a child. But with further examination, it is really the life in the harem that is being tested. Mernissi's life in the harem is mainly shaped by this frontier that no one was answering her questions about. “In a harem, you don’t necessarily ask questions to get answers. You ask questions just to understand what is happening to you” (Mernissi, 22). The education she received was all centered on knowing the hudud, the frontiers of harem life. This understanding of the hudud pays attention to the culture and cultural practices. In Mernissi's practices, discussion with her family, and composed thoughts of the hudud help her understand how the hudud is a sacred frontier that needs to be respected and obeyed. This concept illustrates the somewhat religious orientation on boundary lines and frontiers. It specifically, ...
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...s have to live clumped together, all striving to gain their own personal identity while constantly being smothered by everyone else. Mernissi's mother dreamed of living alone with her husband and children. “Whoever heard of ten birds living together squashed into a single nest?” Mernissi's mother would say. “It is not natural to live in a large group, unless your objective is to make people feel miserable.” (Mernissi, 77). There is a large indefinite amount of other frontiers that exist in and beyond the walls of the harem, all captivate their own various spheres. The sea between Christians and Muslims (Mernissi, 1), the rules for women when it comes to conventional dressing verses liberal dressing (Mernissi, 85), the frontier between youth (Mernissi, 241) and in conclusion there was even a frontier when it came to listening to the radio in the salon (Mernissi, 7).
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The author supports her argument by providing evidence and giving different examples. She compares her own culture with western cultures and describes the invisible harem of western women. She expresses her feelings to convince the audience that women have to stay in harem in all the cultures. By comparing the two cultures she shows how degrading it can be for women to feel as though they must stay thin in order to keep men happy. .