In his essay, “The First Day,” Published in his collection of short stories titled Lost in the City, author Edward Jones describes a little girl's first day of kindergarten, during the day she learns that her mother is illiterate. While the mother’s actions embodied the values of education, the child's most important lesson is seeing her mother flawed.
Edward Jones was born on October 5, 1950, in Arlington, Virginia. Jones has written many books and short stories and has won countless awards for his works of literature. In 1992, Jones published a collection of short stories called Lost in the City, including stories titled "The First Day," "The Girl Who Raised Pigeons," "The Store," "His Mother's House," and "Young Lions," (“Edward P Jones
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Biography”,2015). One of the stories in Lost in the City is “The First Day”. “The First Day” is about a little girl's first day of kindergarten. There is an anomaly between the authors his self the narrator of the story. This anomaly is not seen without knowing about the author’s background. According to Edward P. Jones Biography, Jones had many similarities as the little girl in his story. “The only son of an illiterate hotel maid and a kitchen worker, Jones grew up in his mother's sphere because his father had drifted out of his life when he was a preschooler” (“Edward P Jones Biography, 2015”). One similarity between Jones and the little girl from “The First Day” is the little girl never mentions a father figure, she has a mother and two neighbors, Miss Mary, and Miss Blondelle, but no father and Jones’ father was non-present in his life. Another similarity between the author and the little girl was that both their mothers were illiterate and hard working. Lastly, both the author and the little girl in the short story grew up poor. One difference between the author and the little girl is the author is a grown male and the narrator in the story is a five-year-old girl. The author uses the mood and foreshadowing to show how the little girls’ greatest lesson was seeing her mother flawed. The author uses foreshadowing to show the reader that the daughter now is ashamed of her mother. In an otherwise unremarkable September morning, long before I learned to be ashamed of my mother” (Jones, 1992, p.1). This quote explains that the narrator is now grown and is looking back at this day. The mood during the beginning of the short story was happy, the reader could picture a very happy little girl on her first day to school with her mother but, by the end of the story the mood takes a dramatic change. This happy little girl has now learned that her mother is illiterate or flawed, and the story ends with a sad or somber mood as the mother leaves her daughter at school. One important part of this essay is figurative language. The author uses figurative language to describe the exact outfit that the girl was wearing. “I am wearing a checkered like blue-and-green cotton dress, and scattered about these colors are bits of yellow and white and brown” (Jones, 1992, p. 1). And “My shoes are my greatest joy, black patent-leather miracles, and when one is nicked at the toe later that morning in class, my heart will break” (Jones, 1992, p.1). All this figurative language is significant because the narrator called this day, “an otherwise unremarkable September morning” but yet she still remembers exactly what she was wearing down to the smell even though the author is all grown up and can still remember almost everything. This is significant because it was a shocking day in her life to find out that her mother was flawed, and it was so shocking that she remembered it all. Just like today, an American might remembered exactly what they were doing on September 11th, 2001. The narrator describes her appeal almost to show pride in how she is dressed but also to show pride of how her mother dressed her. She was proud of her mother because how perfectly she dressed her. The daughter was extremely proud of how she looked before she figured out that her mother can not read or write. The author uses a binary opposition to compare the little girl's shoes to the girl’s mother. Before the little girl found out that her mother is illiterate, she called her shoes her greatest joy, then later in the morning when the little girl nicked the toe and flawed the shoes, it broke her heart. This is the same for the little girl and her mother. On the way to school the little girl loved her mother, the mother was the daughter’s greatest joy until she figured out that he mother is illiterate or flawed, it broke her heart. One of the main points of this essay is that the mother wants her daughter to get an education.
The mother wants her daughter to get an education so badly that she will even argue with a woman about letting her daughter go to school, “My mother is not convinced and for several more minutes she questions the woman about why I cannot attend Seaton.” The reader can see that the mother wants her daughter to get an education so badly because the mother is illiterate and can't read or write herself. The mother hopes that with an education her daughter can have a better life than the mother has. According to Single-parent Families in Poverty, an article written by Jacqueline Kirby, M.S. from The Ohio State University, describes the hardships of being a single parent, especially the financial hardships trying to care for not only himself but their children too. “The chronic strains of poverty combined with task overload significantly increases vulnerability to new life stressors. Poor single mothers often experience a cycle of hopelessness and despair which is detrimental to both themselves and their children” (Kirby). This is one of the reasons why the mother wants her daughter to get an education, and the mother does not want a life of hardships for her daughter. In their academic article ‘I know I'm a good mom’: Young, low-income mothers’ written by Amy Romagnoli and Glenda Wall, that describes the hardships for low- income parents, “While mothers, in general, are subject to public scrutiny, for young and low-income mothers, the scrutiny was felt as much more intense” (Romagnoli & Wall, 2012, p.281). This quote shows that young low-income mothers feel much more scrutinized than other mothers might because they are looked at completely differently, in the article one mother gave an example of this scrutiny, ‘On the bus people are just like give you a dirty look just because you’re young, and you got a kid” (Romagnoli & Wall, 2012, p.281). The mother in “The First day”
fit into both of these articles because she was a single parent and was low income, she was scrutinized not only because she was a low-income single parent but also because she could not read. No mother would want her daughter to be scrutinized, which is why the mother wanted her daughter to get an education. The mother and narrator both want an education, but they do not agree on where the daughter should go to school. The mother and the daughter want different types of education. This can be seen with the contract between the two schools. The mother wants her daughter to go to Seaton Elementary. The mother wants her daughter to go to Seaton Elementary because it is located across the street from their church. When they are denied entry, the mother starts to argue with the lady at the door, “My mother shakes her head vigorously. ‘I want her to go here,’ my mother says. ‘If I’da wanted her someplace else, I’da took her there.’”(Jones, 1992, p.1). The narrator has a different opinion about Seaton Elementary; she describes Seaton Elementary as an, “a timeworn, sad-faced building across the street” (Jones, 1992, p.1). The mother ends up taking her daughter to Walker-Jones Elementary. The narrator describes Walker-Jones as being a larger and a newer school and the narrator said she immediately like it because of that, but the mother was still unsure about the school because it is away from her church, her rock. One moral the mother tries to instill in her daughter is, “Do as I say, not as I do.” This is seen in more than one way. One way the author shows that the other is trying to teach her daughter this moral is after her mother had asked for help on the papers because she can't read, a little girl was staring at the mother, so the narrator stared back at the little girl, and her mother said, ”’Don’t stare,’ my mother says to me. ‘You know better than that.’” The mother is trying to instill into her daughter a good manner of not staring, “Do as I say”. However when the teacher came up to introduce herself to the mother and daughter, the mother stared at her, the “not as I do.” This “Do as I say, not as I do” moral can be seen again when the narrator hears a new word for the first time. When the narrator calls her sister this word her mother slaps her across the mouth, and the narrator said, “and the word is lost for years and years.” Again the mother tries to instill in her daughter don’t use that word, “Do as I say”. The narrator said she first heard the word because an older boy called Miss Mary and Miss Blondelle that word and the narrated described the word as, “This is my mother.” Education is the most important gift a parent can give a child but sadly many kids in the United States go without the proper education that they need because they can afford it. According to dosomething.org, a website for young people and social change, More than 30 million children are growing up in poverty ("11 Facts about Education," 2014). These children are living with poverty every day that sadly education is the last opinion. “Dropout rates of 16 to 24-years-old students who come from low-income families are seven times more likely to drop out than those from families with higher incomes” ("11 Facts about Education," 2014). While the mother’s actions embodied the values of education and the mother tries her hardest to teach her, the daughter’s most important lesson was seeing her mother flawed. The essay never said anything about what happened the rest of the day after the mother left because to the narrator it was not as important as what happened earlier in the day, with finding out her mother is flawed. Five years’ old normally look at their mothers as being perfect; they are supposed to be someone a little girl can look up to. To a little girl, no bond should be stronger than their bond with their parents and in this case with the daughter’s single mother.
I was aware that child rearing differed upon classes, but I never thought that when I would learn about them, they’d be so spot on, at least the strategy that the working class and poor parents have adopted. I grew up in a single parent household and my mother barely had enough time to feed us in between her two jobs and sleeping. Don’t get me wrong, I love childhood and my mother even more for sacrificing so much for us, but I mean, this is the
Parental involvement often acts as a buffer for poor education as it leads to higher elementary school achievement, lower high school dropout rates, and more time time spent on homework (Morris, class lecture, May 3, 2016). While it is true that MacDonald’s mother Helen allowed her children to boycott school for a period of time, she was quite involved in her children’s education and lives as a whole. From the time they were young, Helen MacDonald instilled the importance of education upon her many children. When Michael Patrick MacDonald was five years old, his mother began to take classes at Suffolk University where she was studying with the help of financial aid from the government (MacDonald, 41). Helen MacDonald did not have a babysitter but continued to attend class despite this challenge, bringing Michael along with her. In doing so, Helen MacDonald not only furthered her own education but also demonstrated to her young children that school is important. Furthermore, in the face of busing riots, Helen MacDonald paid to send her children to private school despite the crippling poverty she was facing. Because Helen MacDonald paid for education rather than several necessities for herself, it is clear that she not only cared deeply about her children, but that she cared deeply for their
Most people have a natural soft spot for children. Krugman begins to talk about how children’s education is affected by economic status. Middle class families buy houses and take on more debt than they can handle because they want to have their children to go to a school where they have a better chance to have a better education- the inequality facing the middle class means the good school areas are going to be more expensive to live in ( Krugman 590). All parents, who care about their children’s education would relate to this statement. The desperation of parents trying to do better for their children is uplifting, but it’s sad to think they would have to go in debt to do it. Here, Krugman appeals straight to parent’s hearts triggering emotions. Then, he goes on to give facts on how bankruptcies have risen because middle class families are spending less on luxuries and more on trying to get into a good school district. Middle class families are not just being competitive for just to be greedy, but they are trying to give their children as much as a chance as possible in this unequal society (Krugman 590). This is another example where Krugman is appealing directing to people who have been going through a struggle to have their child advance in life. It is almost as if he is trying to tug on the reader’s heart
In the short story “The lesson” by Toni Cade Bambara, A women named Miss Moore, is an intelligent African American women, in a neighborhood full of children. It is in her best interest to educate the children to learn about their cultural aspects of their lives.
To accomplish this, CDGM employed these student’s parents, which simultaneously provided economic opportunity and parental involvement. According to Sanders, employing parents fostered two results. She writes, “[first], parental involvement helped to build trust and respect between children and their families. Second, Head Start employment helped many parents to work their way out of poverty, ensuring that their children had brighter futures,” (2016, p. 37). In having a clear vision of what “good education” is and what the results of a “good education” should be, CDGM was able to expand their conception of what school can and should address.
The major theme of the story was creating awareness in adolescents about what life has to offer. The nature of human beings of accepting the realities of life to such an extent that apathy and lethargy sets in, is what proves to be destructive for the social fabric of today’s world. In this stagnation, Mrs. Moore provides the impetus required for people to realize their god given right to something better. We are told that Mrs. Moore has a college degree, is well dressed most of the times, and has a good command on her language. She seems to be a kind of a person who has seen the world. She has experienced life, and wants to use that experience in providing the children with an opportunity to broaden their horizons. This opportunity that she strives to provide is opening their eyes to the true nature of life and not by giving them money and bombarding their psyche with moralistic attitudes.
Swadener continues with some of the child advocacy organizations that work to dismantle the harsh beliefs about children and families living in poverty stricken areas. They create and/or improve governmental policies as well as programs to aid address specific needs of ‘at risk’ students and families. In reading what they do, I was happy to see that the organizations are working to solve the problems rather than pointing the finger at how the students’ lives became to be such a way. Also, I knew that there are programs out to help ‘at risk’ students, but it never occurred to me that families are labeled ‘at risk’ as well. Swadener listed some of the ‘at risk’ programs which I was surprised to see that I am enrolled for most: Women, Infants, and Children (WIC) and Head Start which is a program that helps pregnant women obtain prenatal insurance before enrolling for governmental insurance such as Title 19, Badger Care, and/or Managed Health. Seeing these programs listed in Swadener’s article gave me twisted emotions.
The story begins with Jodee’s description of how she was victimized in a 4th grade Catholic grammar school; coming to the defense of deaf children that were being treated cruelly. She supplied the school officials with names and was labeled a “tattletale.” No one would talk to her, recess was spent in anguish, and she would find garbage and spoiled food in her book bag. As she progressed into 5th grade some of the social atmosphere began to shift in subtle but profound ways. Being accepted into a clique was all that mattered. Instead of being admired for class participation, as in earlier years she was laughed at and labeled as “teacher’s pet.” She said the rules were simple “shun or be shunned—if you weren’t willing to go along with the crowd, you would become the reject.”
Moses is characterized as a hard-working man who is very kind and intimate with nature. He is the last worker out in the fields on many days and he is extremely comfortable outside in nature. In Edward P. Jones’ excerpt from The Known World, the character of Moses is developed through the imagery that is used, the third person point of view, and the details that Jones chooses to use.
Although our school system is in need of change, the film did not consider the part parental involvement plays in education, a drawback of the film. Education spending in our country has more than doubled in recent decades, but children in most states have proficiency rates of only 20 or 30 percent in math and reading (Weber 6). One must wonder if, with all of this extra spending and consistently low test scores, the problem goes beyond the school system and into American families. After all, even with small class sizes, the amount of one-on-one attention is limited for each student. Isn’t it up to parents to push their children to succeed? Amy Chua, author of the book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother uses an almost militant form of parenting which – though highly controversial – demands nothing short of excellence from her children. While other children were allowed to ride their bikes or play video games with their friends, Chua demanded that her seven-year-old daughter practice t...
She explains that African American and Latina/o students and their families continue to have high educational aspirations despite persistent education inequities. The culture of power as the “norm” of Whites.
... boundaries of poverty. It would still take Ma a couple of years of hard work and dedication before getting out of Southie, but never as long as it took her in the nineteen hundreds. The truth is that single mother’s face far more challenges than marry couples with kids do, especially when combating dangers, crime, and poverty. According to the statistics released by The Urban Institute of Washington, “single-mother households become poor at a rate of 15.7 percent a year, compared with just 2.8 percent for married-parent households” (Ribar and Hamrick). However, it is proven by studies and statistics that the United States is slowly reducing its poverty rate by increasing the funding of services and institutions that help low income families; therefore, it is believable that in present years, Ma would be able to get out of Southie much faster than she did in 1990.
Later in his article, Cohen explains how this leaves middle-class families in a very uncomfortable situation. Parents or other money-making entities in the household want their student to go to college and earn a degree, but now there can be an element of stress in figuring out how the fees will be paid. Furthermore, many families have to worry about sending multiple children to college in succession, so the cost of college for the children can be quickly overwhelming.... ... middle of paper ...
...hould serve as a guideline not only for teachers but also for parents. I also believe parents should be held accountable for their children’s successes. As with most government funded programs, in order to be eligible parents must meet a financial criteria to participate in head start, I believe there should also be a required class or number of classes that parents must also participate in if their child is in the head start program. This serves as a reinforcement for the child, and helps the parents become active in their child’s development in and outside of the classroom. Often children struggle because they don’t have access to constant support and education. I feel as though if parents know better they can do better, and because often these cycles tend to repeat themselves, I do feel as If educating parents is also a step towards ending the cycle of poverty.
In “Too Poor to Parent” Gaylynn Burroughs sheds light on what it is like to parent children while living in poverty. He gives examples of multiple women who despite their best effort are caught in an endless cycle spurred on by the system. As system that is supposed to protect them. Each of these women have in common that due to their low income they are being seen as unfit. In the first reading the author brings forth an interesting idea that as a nation we are controlled by policies of the state and the government and they are in control of things that take place in our lives. Unfortunately for these women the states cut and dry policies don’t take in to account effort. For Monique she was trying to get her ailing son the medical care