My Vision of the American Dream

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As our society today we just don’t seek eye to eye on religion views, marriage arrangements, how to manage our families or dating, but after doing research on different views and outlook pertaining to dating and marriages, India and the United States are an prime examples comparing ideas on courtship, romances, marriage, and divorce seem to be more practical, better for the individuals involved, or for the better society to which the couples belongs.
Dating means different things to different people. It’s an activity as two people in an “intimate” relationship (love and respect 2013). For Native Americans, Dating is considered to be as an American, but restrictions due to their term of dating in their culture. Under India tradition, the parents set up dating arrangements. Moreover, Indian teen’s males and females go on a group of friends on dates to get to know each other instead of a single date. Single dates are harder to get away with. (Gururajan happiness 2011). Other beliefs in India South Asia, replies strict rules dating are forbidding and women do not have a choice to choose who they want to date or married. This leads to young youths in India dating and having romances in secrets of their parents because the arrangement the parents select for their children, they seek different opinions about that mate or not comfortable with the selective mate their parents chose for dating. However, in America it’s completely the opposite relationship begins with courtship. Some parents allow their children to date at a certain age and when they allow their children to date. In the United State, parents set ground rules when their children are dating such as online dating, time restrictions to end their date night, personal informa...

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...ch leads into the income. Without a good education people would have a hard time finding a good job.
In conclusion, Courtship is not a wide spread in neither one of the cultures, but have different outcome and outlook on dating, divorce, and marriage that set approach in India and United states, which are more practical, better for the individuals involved, or better for the society which the couples belongs.

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