Family Structure In Mexican Culture, And Dating And Marriage In A Mexican Family

Every culture has its own unique values, beliefs and norms. Culture defines the identity and interests of a society. Understanding other’s culture is crucial in preparing ourselves for the global experience in the twenty-first century. As the world is becoming more connected to each other, interaction between cultures is unavoidable. I consider myself lucky to live in one of the most diverse cities in the world where I get chance to interact with people of different cultures. In this paper, I will discuss my findings about Family Structure in a Mexican culture, and Dating and Marriage in an African / Gabonese culture. Having a chance to understand various cultures, I realized that beliefs and practices tend to vary from culture to culture.

In a tradition Nepali family, the male is considered the head and is responsible for family decisions. Likewise, women are supposed to stay at home and take care of the children. People live in a joint family and make contributions on household tasks and expenses. However, like the Mexican culture, these practices has been changing in Nepali culture too. As mentioned earlier, Mexican families had been modernized. While some families still follow the traditional family system, many others have changed the way they live. New families prefer to live in nuclear families and females have started being the head of the household. Even though the family structure has been modernized nowadays, family is the number one priority among many modern Mexicans. They still like to celebrate festivals and occasions with all of their relatives and still take care of their elderly parents. Family ties are strong in Mexican culture and have been for centuries, and they hope to keep it the same

To legalize a marriage it must be done at the mayor's office in a city, which is rarely done. The family often has influence in the choice of a marriage partner. Typically, the women’s family look for men who will be able to provide for them, while men choose women who will wear children and keep their home. Girls are sometimes promised at a very young age, although the wedding does not take place (if at all) until after puberty. Gabonese parents do not pressurize their children to marry someone they do not like. They leave it upon the children to find someone right for them. However, they do consider the capability of the person their children selected. The Gabonese generally marry within the ethnic group but mostly outside of their village, to avoid marrying relatives. People usually get married on their 30s. Dating is looked down upon by the society, and the couples dating tend to hide their relationship from their parents. When a couple is wed, they traditionally move to the husband's