Internal Conflicts In Dick Gregory's 'Shame' By Dick Gregory

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What does sense of self-mean? It means what that person sees when they look in a mirror. Whether it is a decent, awful or an indifferent image. Everyone’s self-image is different, and that’s acceptable; normal even. No one person is exactly the same. The authors explain how a sense of self is like internal conflicts and the decision to lie in order to gain approval.
Whether it’s trying to cope with living in poverty, being different from others, or questioning fate; all internal battles that these authors are writing about in their essays. In the essay ‘Shame’ by Dick Gregory, he explains what he must do because he is living in poverty. Nevertheless, his family doesn’t have much money he goes to school on an empty stomach, which makes him …show more content…

Classmates, trying to fit in at school or a bunch of people in a church. They all want the sense of approval. Gregory’s sense of approval in his essay “Shame”, is that is trying to one-up on his crush, Helene Tucker by saying that his daddy will give him more money than what her daddy said he is giving her. “My daddy said he’d give…fifteen dollars.” (Gregory 166). He wants the sense of approval from Helene and his classmates, because if he gets that approval, then he’s caught the attention that he wants from them. He gets that approval that he wants to. But, unfortunately, his teacher calls him out and people start to feel terrible for him. But, for that brief second, Gregory got what he wants most; for his crush to look at him in a different way. Trying to fit in school at a young age is extremely hard for anyone. In “White Lies”, Murphy is explaining how all the other students in her class are requesting their favorite candies from Connie. She can’t seem to remember if she was part of the crowd asking for her favorites as well, “Did I request my favorites…Or did I…” (Murphy 155). If she did, then that would be her getting the approval from the other classmates that were doing that exact thing. Maybe she did ask for her favorites; at that young of an age; kids crave that approval from their peers. In the final essay “Salvation”, Hughes wanted the approval from everyone in his church. Yet again, at a young age, kids want that approval, particularly from adults. After all the children got saved and Hughes was the only child left on the bench, he must make the decision whether to keep sitting on the bench and have everyone wonder why he wasn’t being saved, or stand up and get the approval from others and show them that he’s like the other children that were saved. It might have taken a bit longer for him to see Jesus, the others didn’t know that he is standing up to make them happy, “So I got

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