Why I Am Considered So High For Stress

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When placing myself on the Holmes and Rahe test scale, I was given a score of 248. According to Holmes, I have “a moderate to high chance of becoming ill in the near future” (Mind Tools). This result was very interesting and surprising to me. I haven’t felt overwhelmingly stressed in the past year, though all the events that have been happening in my life indicate that I should be stressed, according to the scale. In thinking about this observation, I conclude there must be reasons why I am ranked so high for stress but do not really feel it at the level I should. Although I endure many stressors, I employ many stress-management techniques that I believe help me to find balance in my life.
This year, immediately before I left my home to go …show more content…

It is concerning to me, because I have never really experienced a visible downturn in emotional health. Because many stressors are occurring at once, my reaction to them is exacerbated. For example, the combination of the news of the divorce and subsequently moving away from home created a greater impact than just one stressor could have. Another factor that may exacerbate my experience of these stressors is my decisions to share my issues with others. In researching the best ways to reduce stress, David Meyers suggests that “social support promotes both happiness and health… by calming limbic activity” (Myers Pg. 506). I find it very hard to go to others for help or consolation. I am generally in the mindset that to vent to others does not help anyone, and because of this, I have not shared my feelings with anyone except for family …show more content…

However, I believe it could be an excellent stress management technique to help me manage my stressors. According to Myers, “Brigham Young University researchers combined data from 148 studies… [confirming] a striking [benefit] of social support” (Myers Pg. 505). My own thinking that venting to others does not help anyone is incorrect, and I believe I can trust in those I am close to with my emotions. There are, however, barriers that prevent the effectiveness of this technique. The people I am closest to live two States away from me. I am not close enough with anyone in Utah to be comfortable and completely open with my emotions. I know that as time progresses, and I create more relationships, this barrier can change. Currently, I effectively use an emotions-focused strategy to help me deal with stressors: rock climbing. Myers provides studies that prove that consistent exercise “can reduce stress, depression, and anxiety” (Myers pg. 508). I believe that this is true. I make it an effort to participate in rock climbing whether at the climbing gym or at rock canyon 3-4 times a week. I have noticed considerably effects in fitness, both physically and mentally. I consistently feel happier, more mentally sharp, and less stressed when finished with a session. The one barrier to use of this management technique is money. The cost per month for a climbing gym membership is manageable, but not ideal. It is important for

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