What Are The Problems Between Family And Friends Essay

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Problems between Friends
Communication means connecting or sharing ideas, and feelings to one another. Family and friends are one of the people that we communicate the most which is a way to build relationship, but sometimes miscommunication happens and it can lead to arguments. During high school, Three of my friends, Ella, Kass, and Karen, my sister, Rani, my cousin, Zhar and I are really close with each other. We hang out after school together. We buy matching bracelets and other things too but even though we are close we had some arguments. Friends do many things together, but there are some problems that had emerged in the relationship which may build the relationship or may cause the relationship to be broken. Ella, Kassandra, Karen, …show more content…

According to Barbara Markway, Ph.D, There is a right procedure to solve a relationship problems. The first step is to define the problem and then set your goal, what you want to happen. Next step is to find possible solutions that is acceptable for you and the other, apply it and then evaluate the result. In another article, Christine Martin states some effective way to communicate which are presenting information and active listening. We should think before we speak and make sure the other person understand what you are trying to tell him/her. We should also pay attention when she is listening, and do not interrupt them or judge them. Another thing is we should remain calm while we are talking. In my second problem, we could have solve the problem on our first talk but everyone got so emotional that it only made it worse. Last thing to remember is to apologize and forgive one another. A friendship relationship can be build even though there are problems that comes to it. Andrea Bonior, Ph.D says that in order to strengthen your friendship, we should be taking new experiences together, hanging out like taking road trips together, and talk to each other about your complaints

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