The Struggle To Be An All-American Girl By Elizabeth Wong

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In The struggle to be an all American girl, author Elizabeth Wong reveals a theme: Love who you are because there is no one else like you. The story is about a girl who goes to a Chinese school but wants to go to an all American school. The story takes place at a school. The main character, Elizabeth Wong, has a conflict when every day at 5 am her and her brother had to go to Chinese school instead of playing with their fourth and fifth-grade friends. The author writes, “No amount of kicking, screaming, or pleading could dissuade my mother, who was solidly determined to have us learn the language or our heritage.” This example reveals that the children really did not what to go to the Chinese school, they did everything in their power to convince

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