The Importance Of Sex And Sexuality In The South

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Understanding sex and sexuality in the South is beyond a challenge. Those wanting to explore these concepts are met with rigid, religious traditions and ignorant, bigots who perpetuate the ideals of the stubborn South. This is especially difficult for the youth of the South who are still trying to find themselves and navigate the trials and tribulations of life.The protagonists of both Jesmyn Ward’s Salvage the Bones and Jim Grimsley’s Dream Boy come from two contrasting backgrounds yet, both share the same struggles of understanding themselves and their sexuality and coming to terms with their sexuality. Sex and sexuality plays an integral part of the stories of the novel as a taboo that many of the characters refuse to address. For Dream …show more content…

This is taboo for the South for both religious and social reasons. Parts of the South are nicknamed the ”Bible Belt” because of the population’s fervent belief and faith in their Christianity. In Christian tradition, having intercourse before marriage is considered a sin, so for Esch to become pregnant is beyond a taboo for many in the South. In addition to the religious aspect of Esch’s taboo, the social aspect has two factors to the taboo. Though teenage pregnancy is a common occurrence in today’s society, it is still considered a taboo. Many believe that the young girls are not capable and mature enough to raise a child when they are still children themselves. Also Southern traditions stresses the need for Southern women to behave like ladies and being a lady prohibits sexual promiscuity. The Southern tradition believes that the Southern lady must be the upstanding example of purity, meaning that in order to be pure a lady must be a virgin by the time of her marriage and not be sexually active with men other than her husband. In a moment, Esch explains her sexual activity by saying, “ I think back to all the times I’ve had sex, and it seems like every memory has gold and silver condom wrappers, like chocolate covered in golden foil to look like coins , that the boys leave behind once they get up, once we pull apart (Ward 30).” At the end of Salvage the Bones, the reader sees that neither the sexual …show more content…

Some are met with verbal abuse, harassment, or even physical violence if they challenge the South antiquated traditions when dealing with sex and sexuality. The characters of Salvage the Bones and Dream Boy mirror what many budding adults in the South face when exploring sexuality and the outcomes of that exploration. Just like Esch, Nathan, and Roy, many young adults differ in their sexuality and their sexual experiences. The next generation of the Southern population and the characters share the commonality that they were brave enough to challenge the traditions of the South. All are able to come to terms and accept who they are as people and seuxal beings as they come of age in the

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