Still Believe In Monogamy?

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Still Believe in Monogamy?
The question that was chosen for 10 responses in this project is, “Why do or don’t you believe in being monogamous?” In my generation, it seems to be becoming increasingly popular to date multiple people at once and actively deciding not to be monogamous. This is done in a non-deceiving way and is found in the forms of open relationships, seriously dating multiple people at once, or casually dating multiple people at once with no real intention of being with just one person for the rest of your life. Personally, I go back and forth on what I believe in. There is a very high divorce rate now but still we strive, myself including, to be in love with one person and share the rest of our lives with them although by scientific …show more content…

if a relationship is anything but two "best friends" who happen to love each other (sexuality) I can't imagine that either would remain faithful to each other. I think you have to have the kind of relationship that you trust and truly love and depend on each other... look forward to spending time together and are always honest with thoughts/feelings.”

Bowen – “I don't believe in long term monogamy because I believe at some point one or both partners becomes dissatisfied and cheats. Better to be open up front then be betrayed later by a commitment you couldn't keep.”
Taylor – “I would say that in order to have a strong, meaningful relationship with someone romantically, you'd have to be monogamous. In polygamist situations, it's easy for people to feel more negative emotions like jealousy or unworthiness. Monogamy just results in stronger, healthier relationships, I think.”
Sarah – “I believe in monogamy because I value trust. Also I believe sex is a special and intimate thing between two people who love each other and this love is built on trust, so if there is no trust there cannot be love and then there cannot be sex in my personal opinion based off of my …show more content…

I think it's totally up to the individual. Some people aren't comfortable being non monogamous and that's fine. Other people prefer it the other way which is also fine. It's entirely up to personal belief. I'm pretty much all for do what feels right.”
Todd – “I do believe in monogamy. Sex is more than a physical act, it's a way for two people to share their affection and express their love for each other. It should be reserved for someone special, someone you want to have a special bond with, sex is more than sharing your body you share your soul w that person. You use it to create a super elite club that only you and your partner are part of if you bring multiple partners in you devalue membership.”
Kelly – “I believe in monogamy. I think that it was God’s will for two people to be together, grow together and if you go outside of that relationship, it is hard to have a trusting and loving relationship with anyone. You also have exposed yourself and multiple people to an increased chance of various STDs by being with several different

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