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Sonia Sotomayor's My Beloved World was an interesting and a relatable book especially to read in my first semester in college. I learned so much from Sotomayor’s experience and what she went through to come to the conclusion that everything is going to be okay. And as long as I set a personal goal for myself and don’t give up, I can do it. She did such an amazing job in writing this novel that we could imagine what it was like to be in her shoes, every detail and mood she set with each chapter was as if we were going through what she was and being able to see the world from her mind. And the more I read the more I could relate with her from having being the first generation to attend college, the loss of a parent, and how it’s okay to start from somewhere in …show more content…
order to achieve my goals. The transition from high school to college was a bit challenging, and different from what it was from K-12. And relating to Sotomayor’s experience about being the first from my family to go to college, and not knowing how to fill out applications or FAFSA was a connection I found with her. It was good to know that I wasn’t alone, and somebody else went through the same thing. Where looking for colleges and finding the right one took longer than an average person, and how she had to figure out how to do everything from applications to tours. And this was also relatable for the reason that both of our parents were immigrants to this country, so growing up in a different environment from them there was so much we had to keep up with, and somehow being able to live with our heritage while simultaneously having to live with our lives as Americans. And being raised in a different place from our parent’s it was a challenge for us as we were the firsts to experience everything and have that untold burden upon us to do better and go further in life so that we can live past our parent’s expectations and go far in life while being successful. Also going on how important family values and family was to her Sotomayor did an amazing job at explaining her childhood, and her memories which are still remembered to this day.
Another point of the book where it seemed like it wasn’t Sotomayor writing, but instead felt like it was a part of my life that I was reading was when she mentioned her father’s death. It was saddening to read, but something I could relate to as well. Being just 5 years older than Sotomayor was when her father passed away I was 14, when my mother did. Although it wasn’t for Alcoholism, but yet of cancer, it was still something that I hope no child experiences at such a young age. It makes you grow and become mature for others around you, and you have to keep a brave face on for your family because sometimes you’re the only one left for them to depend on. And when Sotomayor went off at her mother that one part when her mother was in depression and let herself cry it was okay because that’s what you need to do once in awhile is to just let it out. She was told by her relatives to have a brave face on, but again at such a young age that’s not something a child should go through especially with more obstacles happening at the same
time. And as to become a future Audiologist I have learned that I have to start from somewhere and it’s okay to start from ground zero before achieving my goal. There was always this battle I had with myself and the struggle about not being like anybody else. And that I felt like I didn’t fit because I did things differently and I liked taking my time to succeed in something. And throughout the writings of Sotomayor that no matter what my background was or how my past was, I can use those experiences as wisdom and let it shape my future positively. I need to have good intentions and a straight set of what I want to do in life I can achieve it. This book has opened my mind to reading more autobiographies and learning from the lives and experiences from those that have gone so far in life, but have had to fall and face obstacles before overcoming them. And from My Beloved World we can see the same from Sotomayor’s life, about what it took for her to get where she is today and how successful she is. I’m going to take the lessons I learned from Sotomayor’s life and apply them to myselves to better myself and my life. And in the end I’ll know that everything will be okay, and I’ve got to keep my head up with the set mind of achieving my goals.
I had a few of the excerpts that I enjoyed but one of my favorites was Caring Makes Us Human by Troy Chapman. Just the title had me interested because I am someone who cares about other no matter what they have done in their past. This specific excerpt talks about how prisoners started taking care of a cat and felt grace. These prisoners have done some bad things to go to prison yet they can take care of this helpless animal and treat him like a king. Even the guard joined in or enjoyed watching the prisoners just simply talking to each other while petting the cute cat. They are the perfect example of what we should be as humans. Caring for people and things is what makes us human and a lot of people do not understand that yet. Everyone needs
I really enjoyed reading this book. It truly gives you a lot to think about. I'm only in high school which doesn't give me much opportunity right now of getting a good job, even though I'm going to be in need of one since I'm having a baby. This book made me see that I better have a good education to get a good job or I'm not going to be able to take care of myself and a baby.
Previously, the narrator has intimated, “She had all her life long been accustomed to harbor thoughts and emotions which never voiced themselves. They had never taken the form of struggles. They belonged to her and were her own.” Her thoughts and emotions engulf her, but she does not “struggle” with them. They “belonged to her and were her own.” She does not have to share them with anyone; conversely, she must share her life and her money with her husband and children and with the many social organizations and functions her role demands.
This book teaches the importance of self-expression and independence. If we did not have these necessities, then life would be like those in this novel. Empty, redundant, and fearful of what is going on. The quotes above show how different life can be without our basic freedoms. This novel was very interesting and it shows, no matter how dismal a situation is, there is always a way out if you never give up, even if you have to do it alone.
Her views and attitude are similar to how I would act if I were in her shoes. I can't say I would be as patient as she is, but for the most part, I related to her. I looked forward to see what she would do next. I haven't anything negative to say about this book, and I would definitely recommend it to anyone who is open to read a fun book. WORKS CITED Butler, Octavia E. "Parable of the Sower."
The American Dream has never been available to minority citizens as easily as it is to American-born citizens. Affirmative action was first implemented around the year 1972, however it was not widely accepted or practiced. During this time society was just getting used to including women in higher education institutions so the concept of including minorities in higher education was almost non-existent. My Beloved World, by Sonia Sotomayor shows the challenges that a first generation, Puerto Rican, lower socioeconomic female had during this time. Through her autobiography she shows the struggles she faced throughout her life, focusing on her application to college, college experience and insight into her cultural background. My Beloved World present the ideology of White Supremacy and other phenomenon’s such as structural inequality, and socioeconomic inequality that interfere with Sonia’s inability to receive preparation for college and these things show the that America has not made good on its promise of equal opportunity for all.
...ther is losing her daughter to time and circumstance. The mother can no longer apply the word “my” when referring to the daughter for the daughter has become her own person. This realization is a frightening one to the mother who then quickly dives back into her surreal vision of the daughter now being a new enemy in a world already filled with evils. In this way it is easier for the mother to acknowledge the daughter as a threat rather than a loss. However, this is an issue that Olds has carefully layered beneath images of war, weapons, and haircuts.
The United States is known as the “land of the free” attracting many immigrants to achieve the “American Dream” with the promise of equal opportunity for all. However, many groups, whose identities differed from the dominant American ideology, discovered this “American dream” to be a fantasy. In the 1960s, movements for civil rights in the United States of America included efforts to end private and public acts of racial discrimination against groups of disadvantaged people. Despite the efforts made to empower the disadvantaged groups, racialization and class differences prevailed leading to social inequality. The novel My Beloved World is an autobiography written by Sonia Sotomayor illustrating her early life, education, and career path, explaining the unresolved contradictions of American history and how they continue on in society. Prejudice against certain socioeconomic classes and races prevented equal opportunity. Sotomayor’s text explicates the racialization and class differences that many Puerto Ricans experience while pursuing a higher education, revealing the contradictions between the American promise of equal opportunity and discrimination against Puerto Ricans.
He learned over some time, that it is possible for one to retain separateness but keep individuality, and one can be a public person as well as a private person. He says that at first he wanted to be like everyone else (fit in), and only when he could think of himself as American it was than okay to be an individual in public society. He speaks of a man from Mexico who held on to Spanish: "For as long as he holds on to words, he can ignore how much else has changed his life" (35). The message is to not take words for granted and not to misuse words because they certainly do have meaning. For example, `brother' and `sister' is becoming a public repetition of words. The meaning will become lifeless. Words mean something when the voice takes control "the heart cannot contain!" (39). It forms an intimate sound.
Despite the current scrutiny that her race faces she asserts to the reader that her race and color define her as a person and does not determine her identity. Despite the mindset that most of her peers keep about the inequality of race, she maintains an open mind and declares to the reader that she finds everyone equal. Thus proving herself as a person ahead of her own time.
I don’t think Alma’s decision to return to Mexico was a great one. She should have stayed and applied for another Visa, went and applied for assistance, and talked to an individual who could talk and help her with her current situation. I think the different voices throughout the story affect the main story because all of them have had some kind of negative experience. It poses many questions because you wonder how all Mexicans feel when they come to the United States, what makes them leave their families and come to the United States, do many of them return? I think reading The Book of the Unknown Americans, helps open up one’s eyes and realize that these individuals have faced so many problems coming to the United States that they shouldn’t face more here by being discriminated.
...cts of the mother and the descriptions, which are presented to us from her, are very conclusive and need to be further examined to draw out any further conclusions on how she ?really? felt. The mother-daughter relationship between the narrator and her daughter bring up many questions as to their exact connection. At times it seems strong, as when the narrator is relating her childhood and recounting the good times. Other times it is very strained. All in all the connection between the two seems to be a very real and lifelike account of an actual mother-daughter relationship.
The daughter alludes to an idea that her mother was also judged harshly and made to feel ashamed. By the daughters ability to see through her mothers flaws and recognize that she was as wounded as the child was, there is sense of freedom for both when the daughter find her true self. Line such as “your nightmare of weakness,” and I learned from you to define myself through your denials,” present the idea that the mother was never able to defeat those that held her captive or she denied her chance to break free. The daughter moments of personal epiphany is a victory with the mother because it breaks a chain of self-loathing or hatred. There is pride and love for the women they truly were and is to be celebrated for mother and daughter.
Looking back on the death of Larissa’s son, Zebedee Breeze, Lorraine examines Larissa’s response to the passing of her child. Lorraine says, “I never saw her cry that day or any other. She never mentioned her sons.” (Senior 311). This statement from Lorraine shows how even though Larissa was devastated by the news of her son’s passing, she had to keep going. Women in Larissa’s position did not have the luxury of stopping everything to grieve. While someone in Lorraine’s position could take time to grieve and recover from the loss of a loved one, Larissa was expected to keep working despite the grief she felt. One of the saddest things about Zebedee’s passing, was that Larissa had to leave him and was not able to stay with her family because she had to take care of other families. Not only did Larissa have the strength to move on and keep working after her son’s passing, Larissa and other women like her also had no choice but to leave their families in order to find a way to support them. As a child, Lorraine did not understand the strength Larissa must have had to leave her family to take care of someone else’s
chapter he writes how he is affected because he was considered a minority because of his ethnicity. He had to learn to his roots and love his color. The one he could not accept is that he was given special privileges due to his nationality. He wanted to be awarded the awards on his intellectual merits, not because he was a minority-Mexican-American. He goes into depth on how everyone should be given a fair chance even if you are underprivileged or not. He writes about how his parents especially his mother how she feels betrayed by him, due to him talking about their family out in the public and she considered a private matter. He did not consider himself to be a disadvantaged Hispanic-American. Rodriquez, stated “One Mexican-American said