Bullies vs. Dictators When it comes to bullies, we frequently think of little kids picking on other little kids. However, though bullying is an adolescent phase as well, grown adults can threaten other adults, also. A dictator, which seems to be an adult bully on a large scale, misuses their power and controls a nation with a posse. They mostly use violence in order to scare citizens into changing their ways of life. Bullies and dictators are very similar because they use violence, they feel superior in their position and they tend to have their own cliques; but they’re different in degree. Bullies can be less dangerous than dictators because they tend to have a circle, with less than five people that terrorize people at school or in a place of work. In dissimilarity, dictators, who can be supported by thousands of followers, rule countries. Although, bullies and dictators have parallel mindsets, dictators are stronger and bolder and do damage on a grander scale. Firstly, bullies and dictators like to utilize violence in order to get what they want or to see someone feel pain. Bullies, who can be children and adults, can be physically violent towards others because they have seen domestic violence in the comfort of their …show more content…
For instance, when bullies can see that they control someone who is weak and small, they like to tell themselves that they are better than anyone. Bullies, who have insecurities with themselves, often reflect their problems on others to make themselves feel better. It is very sad that bullies have issues at home and they don’t know how to handle their resentment. As well as dictators, they like to see their rules and regulations in a country put in motion. When they see that their domination is going their way, they tell themselves that they can control anything and everything. This feeling gives dictators assurance that it’s “their way or the
The dictatorship also manages to keep its subjects in line through brainwashing. As Prometheus writes, "Everything which comes from the many is good. Everything which comes from the one is evil. Thus have we been taught with our first breath." Also, as children, the ruled are forced to recite, "By the grace of our brothers are we allowed our lives. We exist through, by and for our brothers," meaning that the only moral justification they have for living is service. By imbuing each subject with the moral premise that the "many" is always good and the "one" is always bad, the dictatorship manages to virtually eliminate any thought of opposition. In opposing the dictatorship, one is opposing the will of all people with one's singular will, and thus is evil. The moral creed that the dictatorship inculcates gives it a moral s...
Although bullying itself can be violent behavior, often times violence is an actual after effect of the harm done by the bullying. Because of the depression or low self esteem after a bullying incident, both bullies and victims sometimes feel the need to lash out violently in order to handle the situation at hand. Although this is not necessary, in some minds this is the only way to handle a situation. These violent lashes can often lead to more serious violence and even illegal activity that could end in criminal charges. One clear cut way to avoid some of these major violence issues is to know how to handle the
Joseph Stalin became known as the iron man for having a reputation of torturing individuals. Deemed as enemies of the Soviet Union, this was viewed as necessary for instilling a level of control over the perception the people had of their leader. No one would risk speaking out against conditions for fear. As seen in Uganda, Idi Amin killed all those who opposed his reign in the country. Some even said he cannibalized his victims. These rumors, or facts as some claimed, served to mystify the leaders of these dictatorships and as we know, people fear what they don 't understand.
Dictator folks take into account minimal open dialog in the middle of guardian and tyke and anticipate that kids will take after a strict arrangement of tenets and desires. On the off chance that kids challenge the principles or inquire as to why, they are typically told, "On the grounds that I said as much." Children are not normally given the explanations behind the standards and there is no place for any arrangement. Tyrant folks may utilize disciplines rather than results. In spite of the fact that youngsters who grow up with dictator folks have a tendency to take after standards a great part of the time, they may create respect toward oneself issues. At times youngsters get to be antagonistic or forceful as they may concentrate all the more on being furious at their guardians for the discipline instead of figuring out how to settle on choices and understand issues. They as a rule depend on discipline to request dutifulness or show a lesson. While the structure and standards of a tyrant guardian are vital for solid tyke improvement, all great things can be overcompensated. It is vital to offset the gave structure open correspondence so the youngster knows precisely why it is essential for them to take after the principles set before them. Offspring of dictator folks are inclined to having low respect toward oneself, being dreadful or timid, partner
“We strive to be like all our brother men, for all men must be alike” (Ayn Rand, Anthem). If everyone is the same no one can be superior, no one will believe they are better; because once someone believes they are better than others they are harder to control. For any dictator to stay in power they need to be in total control of their people; and children are the best and easiest of individuals to mold their minds into what the dictator wants them to believe, think, and do.
Most violence comes from not knowing (ignorance) and bad environments. Children act out as a cry for help, when a child is deliberately misbehaving that is a signal that something is wrong in their environment. When
There are many factors that lead people to use violence. They use violence when they are stressed, angry, feeling hatred, drink too much alcohol, use drug. Children are more likely to grow up as violent men if they are influenced by their parents, brothers, sisters and friends, all of whom use violence.
There are bullies everywhere you go some noticeable and others not at all, you may not recognize a bully because they come in many different forms. The abusiveness of bullies’ is usually deliberate and not accidental. There are bullies at work, online, in the public and mostly school. So who is a bully? A bully is a person that causes emotional, psychological, or physical harm by using two different types of attacks. The first type being direct attacks, this consists of threatening, teasing, taunting, name calling, stealing, damaging of belongings, and hitting. Studies say that this type of attack is more common between males. “While both boys and girls say others bully them by making fun of the way they look or talk, boys are more likely to report being hit, slapped, or pushed”( Nansel, Overpeck, Pilla, Ruan, Simons-Morton, Scheidt 2001). The other type of attacks are indirect, they are spreading of rumors and encouraging others to reject someone else. Studies say that this type of attack is more common between females. “Teenage girls are more often the targets of rumors and sexual comments” ( Nansel, Overpeck, Pilla, Ruan, Simons-Morton, Scheidt 2001). Bullies usually target people who are different, it may be physical differences or even intelligence, and also they tend to target people who won’t retaliate back. They usually harass the person by attacking at there differences and imperfections. So a bully is someone who causes harm to others over and over again.
Imagine yourself in a world where you are constantly having to fear not being able to ever be free from this cage that you've been wanting to get out of for so long. Now imagine that suddenly just being your real life and not just a world that was just imagined, it’s almost too unbearable to think about but this happens. The book “Before We Were Free is a good example of that. The books takes place in the Dominican Republic in the 20th century, when the Dictator at the time was Rafael Trujillo, or in other words El Jefe. Dictators are a ruler with total power over a country, typically one who has obtained power by force. Till this day there are countries that are still ruled by dictators, for example, North Korea However, having a dictator
Violence is a way of demonstration of all the other feelings inside a human being. Feelings that are suppressed and can only be let out through the pain of another. There is always a reason for violence, a motive that can be scary, or perhaps even tender. It can be physical and it can be verbal. Violence can go from an everyday beating, to a once in a lifetime regret. It can be within a home, or a whole socie...
Coming up with a clear reason why a person would choose to bully another individual can come from trying to establish what the bully gains through this action. A person feels powerfu...
Why do people bully? Some people bully because they are afraid. When people are afraid of something or someone, they decide to bully. People choose to bully, because they think it make them cool. They think if they bully people, others would want to be like them. They believe it would help them fit in with the people around. They think it would help them be like someone who everyone else look up too. They want their friends to see how bad they are or how bad they try to be. Bullies are not as bad as most people think they are. Some people bully only on small people. You don’t see to many bullies bullying on each other. Even bullies are afraid of each other. The bully think since they are bigger than another person, they have more power. Some people even bully others because they may be getting bullied somewhere else. They may come to school and bully someone else to get their mind off of what some else are doing to them.
Bullies appear in all shapes and sizes. There is not a specific physical trait that they all carry. Although, mentally and emotionally bullies might be extremely similar. Most of the time, there is some type of deep insecurity within the bully that causes them to push it onto another person. A child or teen that does bully others are known to also be engaged in other various harmful activities. They are more likely to use drugs or alcohol and tend to engage in sexual activities earlier than the norm. A bully can be someone that is popular and has a high social status. This causes them to want to establish dominance and a position above everyone else. For example, the movie Mean Girls deals with this type of conflict. A character in this movie named Regina George made a "Burn Book" to establish her dominance. This book showcased gossip and rumors about students and teachers who attended her high school. A bully could also be someone who is isolated and deals with a great amount of low self-esteem. This still cau...
The answer is simple, they bully so they don’t have to deal with their own problems, which is taking the “easy way out”, according to James Lehman who has a master in Social work. Bullies have not learned how to deal with their own problems, so they take it out on others. One source of bullying is at home. If children are seeing their mom, dad, brother, sister, or even aunts or uncles bullying people, that is how they learn to bully. Bullies use aggression, violence and even verbal abuse. They don’t learn how to solve their problems, so they just threaten other children instead. What does an aggressive bully look like you might ask? Well, they are the children on the playground not playing with anyone or roaming around alone. They may throw and break things because it makes them feel more powerful and in
Bullying can lead to mental health, social problems, emotional problems and even death. Children who are bullied are at increased risk for mental health problems, including depression, anxiety, and problems adjusting to school. Question is why do people bully each other? They are doing that to be attractive, however children and adolescents who are bullies are at increased risk for using drugs, and other substances and violence to others later in life. According to “Nasilje .com” that people who are bulling became more and more aggressive later in their lives. “65 per cent of men who kill themselves have been bullied” (Stop to violence, 2007). Young adults under age of 22 who are bullied can damage their brain development. According to Bulk Burlaing, Psychologist at the Banja Luka “There is evidence that children who have suffered violence have mental disorders”. Therefore, these are indeed severe physical effects.