23/m/CO dominant and rigger
Personaly my job is to use my experience and the experiences of others to both better them and myself in the process. I want to help people grow. I want to help people explore and understand themselves better.
I've been in the lifestyle roughly 3 years heavily.
An ex got me into the lifestyle through pet play, rope bondage, and impact play
Bdsm is a lifestyle that pertains to more than just sex. It is a way of thinking and a guidance to both the sexual and non sexual activities you want to participate in.
In a d/s the power is given to the dom but at any time that consent can be retracted. The sub can have many reasons as to why they relinquish power and control to their dom. Personally I've seen subs enjoy the release
of not needing to make decisions or feel the burden of choice. I the group, if I can find teachers and students alike I'll be happy. I'm an information sponge and love meeting new people and learning new things. Of course also having fun along the way I'd offer my experience as well as my individual point of view in many different aspects of bdsm
I also see myself as a Substance Abuse Counsellor. This is also a very important role to fill because there are so many lives being destroyed
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...pe, both sex and aggression become fused together into a single experience called sadism. There is a transformation of anger and power so that aggression becomes erotic. This offender finds the intentional mistreatment of his victim extremely gratifying and takes pleasure in her torment and suffering (Hazelwood 1).
It is common that someone who does not know anything about BDSM other than the stereotypes, will think that it is all about whips, chains, and pain, but that is only a small part. Often forgotten are the types of BDSM lifestyles that are based around specifically caring for the submissive,
To understand what sadomasochism really is, you need to know how it came about and what the definition is. The concept of sadism was brought about by a man by the name of the Marquis de Sade (1740-1814). The Marquis de Sade was a French soldier and writer who from the time he was a young nobleman consorted with prostitutes and developed a taste for sexual perversions. He was later imprisoned on several occasions for his harsh abuse of the prostitutes. After arriving at the Bastille in 1784 he began writing erotic novels in which he gave full expression to his sexual fantasies. His most famous work of literature was The Adversities of Virtue (1787). His works are highly known for their very graphic descriptions of sexual perversions. His last years were spent in an insane asylum at Charenton, where he wrote plays for his fellow inmates to perform. His compulsion for physically and sexually abusing others is what brought about sadism. The definition of sadism is as follows: 1. the deriving of sexual gratification of the tendency to derive sexual gratification from inflicting pain or emotional abuse on others. 2. The deriving of pleasure, or the tendency to derive pleasure, from cruelty. 3. Extreme cruelty. 4. The act or an instance of deriving sexual gratification from infliction of pain on others. 5. A psychological disorder in which sexual gratification is derived from infliction of pain on others. 6. Sexual pleasure obtained by inflicting harm (physical or psychological) on others. 7. A sexual perversion in which gratification is obtained by the infliction of physical or mental pain on others. (www.dictionary.com/sadism)
People with sexual with masochism disorder experience sexual joy through activities such as restraint, whippings, or other ways of suffering (Schug & Fradella, 2015). Fish enjoyed whipping and even inserted needles into his body to have multiple forms of physical pain to satisfy his sexual desires (Blanco, 2015; Ouzman, 2008; Taylor, 2004; Twisted Minds, 2007; Zhang, 2013). However, many of these activities are dangerous and have the potential to kill someone (Schug & Fradella, 2015). Fish used the beatings as a start for torturing young children, but eventually Fish raped, killed, and committed cannibalism (Blanco, 2015; Casale, 2014; Ouzman, 2008; Taylor, 2004; Twisted Minds, 2007; Zhang, 2013). Sexual masochism begins in childhood and continues to adulthood (Schug & Fradella, 2015). Fish was merely a child when he discovered he enjoyed beatings
On the 25th of December 2014, in Taupo, I had volunteered to work at a homeless shelter. While I was there I had got told the procedures on what I was going to do on the job. My duties while working there was, cleaning, cooking, and serving. The idea of the homeless shelter is to meet, feed, and welcome other people that are less fortunate than us on Christmas.
BDSM is most often used as a term to describe a range of sexual activities. However, it is also an approach to sex and to sex play. BDSM is a cumulation of other acronyms; B&D; standing for bondage and discipline, D/s; standing for dominance and submission, and S&M; standing for sadism and masochism. BDSM is not principally a clinical term used by health care professionals, rather it is more often used by people to describe their own sexual practices. “A very general definition might be that BDSM is a form of sexual expression that involves the willing and consensual exchange of power” (Silverberg). The words “willing” and “consensual” are vital, BDSM is not a term that describes any behavior that is forced or pressured. The most important
The submissive and the dominant discuss what they are willing to do, what they like, and what they are absolutely uncomfortable with. Discussing each other’s boundaries builds emotional support and can also be a form of foreplay. There is a saying in the BDSM community; safe, sane, and consensual. Safe is being knowledgeable. Knowledgeable about the techniques and safety and acting with that knowledge. This includes protection against sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy, and psychological safety. The BDSM community teaches people the proper way to use the equipment. There are books to help people practice safe BDSM. SM 101 by Jay Wiseman, Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns, by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon, and The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton. Sane is knowing the difference between fantasy and reality. Having a clear mind. Consensual is respecting each partner’s limits. A way to keep each other feel comfortable is a safe word. A safe word is a word that has been decided before four play and sex by the participants to let one another know when one of them has reached their limits. BDSM must be consensual. ("BDSM vs. Abuse." BDSM vs. Abuse. Web. 9 Dec. 2015.) The blogger said that BDSM is not always completely consensual. Which is sadly true sometimes. Sometimes people are pressured into sexual activities by their partner. She does realize that people do consent to being sexually
My daily job is to love myself, and to believe in myself because when I do, it makes others believe in me. I teach others how to treat me.
Unfortunately more often than not, stories punctuated by the line “I hate my job” have reached my ears. The reality of mankind’s tendency to be lazy and despise hard labor stands in complete opposition to the basic truth of the universe: we must work to survive and thrive. Luckily, in the economic system in place across nearly the entire globe, the jobs we assume not only provide us with a means of self-sufficiency, but a path to better ourselves. Each and every experience in our lives provides an opportunity for growth and advancement, a fact that is usually preached in a cliche “learn from your mistakes” or “get better every day” speech.
like she was spying on me. She took me through the back of the shop to
dangerous thing especially when you give into it. It can lead to serious problems and maybe
clothing needed to be marked down and I was told how to use the system
he was called Paul, and we spent a lot of our time in the mornings