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There was a point in life where I would use the word loner to describe myself. However I've learned that enjoying being alone doesn't necessarily make me a loner.Like most people I wasn't born into an entirely functional family. Although some people, at least had a support system at home, I didn't. And although I was surrounded by people who had more than enough help and support, I continued to persevere, In all aspects of life. I was forced to face alone the cruelty of the world, including bullying, abuse and most anything you could imagine, All of which I have overcome. These various triumphs and successes have led me to the realization that I'm, in fact, not a loner. I am independent.
One event that has particularly shaped my personality would be when my mother gave custody of my sister and I over to my great aunt, Janie. In fact, one of my earliest memories is being present the court room when the final documents regarding our custody were signed. I remember feeling a since of abandonment even at such a young age. I was no older than seven years old and even then I could understand the nature of what was happening.My aunt, Janie relapsed into a deep drug addiction within months of have being granted all maternal rights towards my sister and I. At hat point survival became first nature for the two of us, with the understanding that we could
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Also as the years progressed my aunt grew stronger in her addiction, causing my sister and I to grow up rather fast compared to our peers. Approaching our teenager years my sister began to experience abandonment issues and as a result she began to runaway on a regular basis until my aunt decided to ship her away, to my mother, in Milwaukee. During the time in her life that she became a habitual runaway I began to feel a since of abandonment from her. It was then that I became the independent person that I remain
The situation that I have thought of is, when I was on the jury for juveniles who committed first offenses. While I was listening to the lawyers depend these kids, I looked on the list and saw a familiar name. The name was a person I went to kindergarten with. She was being convicted of shoplifting. I could not believe it. All the thoughts of that soft, kind-hearted person went out the window. My behaviors were changed by the environmental influences. My thoughts were overcome with coldness. I felt that she choose her situation. Somewhere along she became part of the wrong crowd and never changed her situation. I also think that the situation changed what I thought of her.
My childhood was somewhat gloomy due to an alcoholic father; verbal and physical abuse was part of my upbringing. An event that I remember that shaped my life was when I failed the first grade. As a child I could perceive it, and these events helped to reinforce and mold future behaviors. During my teenage years I had much difficulty with love relationships even at times having inferiority complex after a breakup.
Many pivotal moments appear in a human beings life to change the way that individual thinks. All human experiences shape the way a person becomes. The death of my 20 year old second cousin changed my perspective on life. It was not because he was close to me or had a huge impact on my life, but because such a young life ended so suddenly. I got to experience how that impacted and even changed certain people. I came to the realization that all those stories on the news actually happen to real life people. These stories seem so unimaginable, but from that point on, I realized that anything can happen to anyone in the simple blink of an eye. I learned that although every human envisions certain things to occur in their lifetime, many aspects cannot
From the death of my father, the influences of my loving grandparents, to the births of my own children. The hardships that I have been through and the love from people all around me have shaped me into who I am today.
The moment in time when I realized that I was never going to have a Father like the rest of my friends changed the course of my life. As a young boy it was difficult coming home after a baseball game where each of my friends dads were there to cheer them on. I was left with the Father that was incapable of working or even getting himself out of bed. My fathers illness showed me to never take life for granted because one day your life can be normal and another day you're best days have already past.
A person does not experience many events that shape their life in a large way, whether it be for better or worse. I have had just one major situation that has sculpted me into the person that I am today. In February of 2008, I was diagnosed with a life changing disease; it would relieve me of the agony I had been experiencing for as long as I could remember, but also restrict my diet for the rest of my life.
It is incredible to understand how the way someone was nurtured as a child could have such an effect on there adulthood. I personally believe that the events that occurred in my early childhood were stepping stones to defined me as the person I am today.
Everyone has a story, a pivotal moment in their life that started to mold them into the person they are today and may even continue to mold you to the person that you will become, I just had mine a little bit earlier than others. When I was three years old my brother became a burn survivor. It may seem too early for me to remember, but I could never forget that day. Since then, I have grown, matured and realized that what my family and I went through has been something of a benefit to be and an experience that has helped me in deciding what I want to do with the rest of my life.
As a child I suffered an event that framed my life, a catastrophe that would change my life at least temporarily. This catastrophe changed things all around me, things in my family changed and things at home changed ever since that day. I remember we were all exited, we were going on a family vacation to different regions of Colombia.
Everything in life that we experience effects who we are as a person today. Even if we do not remember all the events that shaped a particular part of our life, we have memories of the events that we believe had the biggest impact. The types or experiences we have both positive and negative help shape us into the types of readers and writers we become.
Everyone has times when they are alone for situational reasons, or because they have chosen to be alone. Being alone can be experienced as positive, pleasurable, and emotionally refreshing if it is under the individual's control. Being alone and lonely, and even
One was the death of my father and the inevitable acquisition of an alcoholic step-father. The second one was being diagnosed with a terminal illness at the age of 16. Both traumatic events in my life were introduced throughout adolescence and they impacted some the decisions I made throughout my adult life, including the significant decision to go to back school and focus on child behavior. I began this journey when I enlisted in the college of Education, but was redirected by fate here. The positive interactions I had with my family and others were the key elements in the positive outcomes I have had in life.
For me, being alone does not equate being lonely, but is rather a gift. As a child, my parents constantly worried about me. For many reasons, like most parents, but mainly because of my quiet and withdrawn personality. Teachers would congratulate my mother because of my outstanding grades, and then proceed to alarmingly ask my mother if something was wrong with me that kept me from talking in class or making friends.
An event that has shaped my life, is when the series of terrorist attacks happened in the United States on September 11, 2001. This event has shaped my life because it put my family in an emotional state. The attack was brutal but it was also very devastating to my family. On that day we lost a love one, a best friend, a godfather, and an overall amazing person.
The main event that has changed me and shaped me into the person I am today is my 3 older sisters who struggle with drug addiction; things got so bad with my oldest sister this summer that she lost custody of her kids and now my parents have all 3 of them. Last year my whole life basically got turned up side down... and things really took a turn for the worst this summer. Both my parents are fishermen so when they left this summer they took my 2 nephews and left me, a 16 year old, alone in town with no money, no car, and my 1 year old nephew that they couldn't take with them- which was completely out of their control and there was nothing else they could do, so I definitely don't blame them; but it was a serious life changing event. It was one of the worst summers I've ever had, but I feel like it was a good life lesson; I feel like I really grew up because of it. I lost my oldest sister, not literally, but she's not the same person anymore.