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Love and Sex in the Medieval World
Have you ever thought, where did the concept of love and sex develop and evolve from? It is from the time of the Neanderthals that sexual status came into play. In the later world though it is very much different. Love and sex are more emotional and physical bonding of two people than it ever was before. At the same time however sex is just as much pleasure as it always was but the concept of love had arisen and made it more than just pleasure with multiple partners. Sexual intercourse had developed into something more. There was a whirlwind of emotions. For every culture, religion and part of the world though it was different. Even social class came into play as those in high societies believes and ways were much different than those in the lower classes. Europe, India and Japan during their medieval times had all developed their own sense and believes of what love and sex represented to them and their cultures. They all had their own preferences when it came to sex as well as having different ideas on how sex and love related to marriage within their culture and their society. Love and sex in these three areas was vastly different because of these cultural, spiritual, and social differences; each one of these three societies helped develop the concept of what love and sex are seen as in today’s world.
In medieval Europe the basics of love and sex were very different from the other regions, as it was based more on the concept of love than it was on the physical interactions of sexual intercourse. The high society in Europe had developed the concept of “courtly love”. They believed that love was a sensation of emotions that were to be displayed not by physical intercourse but by words and a spiri...

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...iffered in society for social, religious and cultural ways from the medieval times till our world today. Medieval Europe, India, and Japan have all had an impact on how we see sex and love in our society today. Each one contributing a small piece of their values and teachers whether it be spiritual or physical, about love or sex, they have all helped us shape our concept of sex and love today. Love and sex today are looked at as a bonding of two people and are intertwined with one another, there is no love without sex and no sex without love. These three cultures have showed us though how they can be separated though. They showed us how love and sex are connected but completely different. In the end they helped play a large part in developing our ideas of love and sex in our world today because of the different religious and social ideas that were brought into play.

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