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My dearest Isabelle, when you were born, I was thrilled, my very own daughter. Your hair, a bright gold and your eyes, such a clear, gorgeous blue. I had ambitions for you and me; I was going to teach you to be an independent woman who broke away from society’s norms. Every night from the day you were born I repeated my beloved phrase to you, “you will be strong, you will do anything you set your mind to, your future will be wonderful, you will be free!” Alas, your father never liked my ideas about your future, a women’s objective in life was to find a pleasant and wealthy husband.
On the Fifth morning after your birth I awoke feeling odd, you had not woken me with your cries, nor had your father demanded I attend to you, to “stop that awful
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You were my only happiness. All day, every day I felt guilty for leaving you alone, the guilt ate me away making me feel empty inside. I was angry with myself for allowing your father to take you without putting up a fight. I imagined you alone calling out for me, sobbing for me to come and protect you, weeping for me, your mother. The pain inside my heart grew with each hour that passed. My rage began to increase, I loathed myself for not being there for you, for not being a proper mother. My days consisted of standing over your cradle, grieving, my beautiful Isabelle I could not cope with myself, your blankets became damp with tears. I wanted to leave, but without your father, I was nothing. He provided me with everything. Without him I would not survive, without him I would never have enough money to raise you. I began to loathe the words I once repeated to you, I was not strong, I could not do anything I set my mind to and I was not …show more content…
I could not stand to think of anybody else being your mother. Your father too gleeful to understand my pain and caught up in his victory that he did not even notice that any love I had held for him was long gone. Abruptly a question began to form in my mind, why do I allow him to control me like this? I can be just as independent as any man. I do not need him, I can survive on my own. I can make a life for just me and you. I will be independent, I will do anything I put my mind to starting with leaving this house. I opened the door knowing that by now your father would have begun his daily work at the factory and felt my bones screaming for freedom, I put one foot firmly outside the house and shrilled “I am free!” and with that I walked away from the house, I walked away from your father, who was no longer my husband. I watched as the house became smaller and smaller the further I walked away. I had made up my mind, from now on it would only be me and you, I would never face your father again. You were my Isabelle, and my Isabelle will never be taken from me again. You are my daughter, you are my second half, and now you are my only love. You are my life, my world and I am coming to find you. I began to run, feeling the wind rush alongside me. The word freedom hanging from my
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'For all the smoldering emotions of that summer swelled up in me and burst-the great need for my mother who was never there, the hopelessness of our poverty and degradation, the bewilderment of being neither child nor woman and both at once, the fear unleashed by my father's tears.'
Almost twenty years ago, around this time of the month, you had a baby girl on November twenty-six. Like every parent you are happy, smiling at the baby, holding my hands and taking pictures. I grew up, stood up, walked for the first time, said my first words, and lost my baby teeth. It’s time for me to go to my first day of school; you don’t want me to go because you got use to my presence in the house. Meanwhile, you are low-key wishing for me to stay a baby girl, when you know perfectly that it isn’t going to happen.
Daughters have always had a special bond with their fathers, even at the time where women did not have the same rights as men, and were seen as the weaker sex. This father is no different, in wanting the best for his little girl. The father in this letter wants the daughter to accomplish her roles differently than the women before her because he knows that women are capable of accomplishing “male” tasks. The letter also addresses how women were seen and treated by men and the changes that were occurring in order to gain a status quo for both men and women.
I sit here waiting, waiting for the day for the I can be free. Free from work, free from these awful people, free from everything. I wish I could just settle down at my own place where I can grow my own food, farm my own land, be my own boss. I already dont have to worry about Lennie getting in any trouble. I guess I'm halfway there. It could just be me on my own, on a little farm, with some chickens, maybe some pigs or a cow. I can grow my own food. I know how to cook, I’m not too bad. I can teach myself some things. I can even go into town every saturday and trade in some of my things. While I'm there I can visit Lennie's grave, maybe bring him some pretty flowers. Oh I'm sure he would like that. I really do miss that sun of a gun.
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But my life wasn’t all rosy, as I had to go through hardships. I had to deal with discrimination because of my gender. I was expected to be molded into a “real lady, who was obedient to only their husbands.” This is expected in society (at this time), as the view was that there were only two important roles in life, “Soldiers and prostitutes.” However, I was lucky that I got to construct my own life, and that I opened the path for other females to
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Sitting across from me I noticed an old woman with white hair and round glasses looking at me as if I had killed her children or ruined her marriage. The old woman was wearing a purple moo moo decorated with poorly drawn roses that looked like something a kindergartner would finger paint. I knew this woman from somewhere, but I couldn't remember what her name was until I noticed the neon pink bunny slippers she was wearing. That old cranky woman was Penelope’s mother Harriet Shepherd who didn't like me before I died which means she has to despises me now since I abandoned her daughter for thirty years. Now that I think about it my subconscious was kind of hoping she wouldn't be around not dead just in a coma or locked inside a plastic bubble.
“Well children, I believe the sun will be paying us a visit today.” Miss Sean says. I glance at Margot, admiring her beauty from afar. I’m happy she’s not looking back, but she’s gazing out the window. She’s earth born.
The afternoon was slowly fading into the evening and I had gone the whole day without the figure of my aspiration, my father. I impatiently paced the floor in front of the door like a stalking cat waiting to pounce on its prey. The thoughts of wrestling my father and hear those words of affirmation, “You got me! Mercy! I give up!” filled my head. My father was obviously faking it but there was something about his words that have such power over a young boys life. Mothers are sources of comfort and safety for a young boy but it is the father that defines the identity of a young boy, the father bestows manhood on the boy.
All morning, Alice has worn an exuberant smile that only intensifies the closer the time comes to us attending the club. By five o'clock, she's bouncing off the walls. “You don't suppose it's too early to leave now, is it?” she asks the moment she emerges from the bathroom cloaked in a white towel.
She was my first child, and I have to leave some of my old ways behind and become more stable and family focused man. This was a stage in life were a lot of things changed. My only brother committed suicide, the mother of my first child left me, and I met the love of my life (Lisa). This was a point that where a lot of pressure was placed on me and at times did not know how I could be the best husband, father, and man I could be. I had to cope with the loss of my brother, and I used fathering Gabrielle as way show and feel love and happiness, but when she was taken away from me, it affected me greatly and went downhill. I wanted to be a full-time active father, but I was only allowed to see her on the weekends. To be honest, I did not know how I was going to make it through. I was only 20 years old, but I knew men could handle it, but more importantly, a father HAD to handle it”
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