Interview With A Female Co-Worker

I had two conversations, one was male co-worker and other was with a female co-worker, both had different outcomes. When speaking to the female co-worker the outcome of my style was conversational style. She observed that I smile when I talk, regardless of the subject and my tone remained the same for the most part. I did not interrupt her, I really did want to. My female co-worker asked me what I had planned for the summer. She noticed that when I mentioned my baby I was more excited and my tone was higher pitched and my eyes would get bigger. Her observation with that was that when talked about something I am passionate about I talked longer. We work in customer service business and she has hear my conversations with the members. She observed that

My tone is positive no matter the issue that member might have or what their tone is. She said I seem tenser but in control when dealing with members and remain calm while trying to resolve their issue. When having a conversation with her I seemed more relax and myself and didn’t seem as professional in conversation. My co-worker said that I always had eye contact when listening to her questions and replying. I did noticed others around me and would always greet them in the passing with a smile. Having a conversation with my male co-worker was a bit of different experience, I didn’t get much feedback as I did with the female co-worker. I did tell her to observe me and see which style would fit me better so maybe she concentrated too much on and because male -coworker simply said that I am easy to talk to and that I am a good listener. Male co-worker asked me about my child which something we have in common and he said that he can relate and understand what I am talking about. We had a lot in common when it comes to raising children and how we enjoy being parents. I wanted to