I'm Not Offended

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"We have this mentality that no one should be offended in any way. But the truth is..." Some may not understand what to take from this. For some it could create an idea of saying things that are offensive, simply because they are true. That is not what this line means. Everyone is offended by something. Offense is also one of many factors that can destroy relationships. The determining factor of offense is the choice we make as a result of the offense. "Everyone is offended by something." This statement seems too general. It almost sounds as if it should be labeled as common sense. But unfortunately, there are some who think they can't get offended. "I'm not offended." That is the one thing I've trained myself to think since this time last year. Recently I was involved in a conflict. I kept thinking that I wasn't offended in any way. After the conflict was resolved, my dad told me to watch a 30 minute video called "The Bait of Satan". The speaker, a man named John Bevere, was preaching on how offense can cause conflict and ultimately destroy relationships. He also wrote a book called The Bait of Satan. (Ironically, the video was actually playing before the conflict started.) Offense. According to the Oxford American Dictionary, offense is annoyance or resentment brought about by a perceived insult to or disregard for oneself or one's standards or principles. In the words of John Bevere,"One who is offended is one who can't forgive. And a person who can't forgive has forgotten what they have been forgiven of." An offended person can be the source of broken relationships. There are three categories of offended people. There are people who are always offended. There are people who truly are offended. And, there are p... ... middle of paper ... ...e this type of person, understand that you will be offended, and pray that God will open your eyes to see this offense. Then, go and forgive the person who has offended you. For some teens, offense might be as insignificant as dating in high school as a freshman. For some offense could be the difference between an exciting journey through high school and a miserable one. In the long run, offense could be the difference between a successful marriage and a divorce. It could be the difference between success in the work world and life without a job. Offense can destroy relationships if we are not aware of what to do with it. Everyone is offended by something. The determining factor is the choice we make as a result of offense. The choice could be to forgive and forget, or to hold on to a grudge. Offense can be the difference between success in life and a wasted life.

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