How Is Gender Equivalent To Gender?

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Many of us think that ‘sex is equivalent to gender’, yet they are actually very different. In simple definition, sex is determined biologically at birth, and we can tell a person’s sex by anatomy, but there are no definite criteria to determine a person’s gender. All of the articles suggest that gender is not born with, but is socially constructed. In our society, one is expected to perform certain behaviors that are suitable for a particular sex, which is known as gender role, so as to fit into the society. As suggested by Franklin II and Clye W., there are many different agents in the society that shape gender, such as family, education, religion, peer, etc. All of these agents implant values into children about their behaviors so that they can match with the social expectations of their gender. For example, parents usually choose masculine toys for boys and choose neutral or feminine toys for girls, boys are encouraged to engage in larger group games and compete against each other while girls play in smaller groups at school. Through the continuous influence from different agents, children learn their gender role and behave accordingly. Moreover, most people do gender unconsciously, as suggested by J. Lorber. Since gender is too in line with our everyday life, we usually assume that we are born with it, that it’s more …show more content…

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