Since my middle school years, I heard that Haines City High School (HCHS) was a breeding ground for gang fights, drug sellers, and dropouts. However, I was unable to attend another high school due to my parents not being able to drive me to a different school. “Discipline yourself to keep on track to really achieve any goal that is worthwhile until it's accomplished.”, a quote that I read and led my entry in high school. As my goals are to join the military and graduate from college with my bachelor’s degree, HCHS has the JROTC program and computer classes that I seeking for.
The freshman year of high school came around and the influences of drugs and alcohol were a daily presence in and outside of the classroom. Peer pressure was the biggest problem of all as the friends I had at the time started drinking and lowering their grades. I life wake-up call and I began seeking out a portion of the school that wasn’t involved in these social illness. I started to become a member of the JROTC and Emerald brigade band to be focused. Sharing my experience was part of the remedial process, useful tool that bring the opportunity to help other students and start to become a leader.
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School years passed and I found every program to have people who are involved in drugs and alcohol but also those who are not.
I realized that it is in my hands how I want to shape my future and whether or not I would want to stay away from alcohol and drugs. I made the choice to stay away and surround myself with those who did. Even by doing so the presence is there daily. But every day I think back to what my father told me as a freshman, “I drank and smoked from the age of fourteen. After my marriage, I realized I was having your sister and I decided to quit and change my life so that both of you would not have an abusive alcoholic father.” This reason has stuck in my mind because I do not wish to be one when I grow up. I use this lesson to help new JROTC cadets with the same
dilemma. As a member of the Army Reserve, my mother saw many soldiers use drugs and alcohol to escape from the reality of the Iraq conflict and their own personal issues. She never fell on this situation because she set up strong goals in life. Important lesson that I’m analyze in my first year and continue practicing today. The use of drugs and alcohol deteriorated not only my health but also hurt my pocketbook. However, every day I face the dilemma of deciding whether to just give in and live the easy life or fight for something bigger and stronger. I still strong in my goals and continue working hard in my training, last year I earned the Presidential Physical Fitness Award and won the Raiders District two years in a row. My career goal of becoming a Special Tactics Officer is more important to me than some high or the approval of my friends. My country is depending on me to make the correct choices when faced with these dilemmas and I will not let them down.
Coming into the substance abuse meeting the student nurse was scared and nervous. She was scared of the reaction of the consumers and feared all the stereotypes she heard about typical alcoholics. Innervison gave the student nurse a new outlook on these types of consumers. She no longer looked at them as people who were just drunks and wanted to use AA as an excuse to make it seem like they are getting help. She never really looked at alcoholism as a true addiction; it seemed like more of an excuse to escape life’s problems. Sitting in and listening to these consumers gave the student nurse a dose of reality. The student nurse now understands alcoholism better and AA helped her realize recovery is truly a process that takes one day and one step at a time.
Even though they may want to other factors are usually at play. It takes a team in this instant to work through and accomplish the goal of sobriety. This novel has aided me in understanding the world of an addict better. It gave the insight that only a person in the addiction can give you. It helped me to see that whatever the driving force is in an addict, it can sometimes consume you. Some people can fight the urge to use, while others give in to the temptation. The most important task in addiction is to surround yourself with positive people and positive activity. Correspondingly, loss or drastic change should always be handled with caution. The divorce of his parents and going between his dad and mom’s house was upsetting. Nic not feeling like a part of his dad’s new family was depressing
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Most people think of alcoholics of being part of the homeless population or of lower class. I learned that anyone can be an alcoholic, even nurses and doctors. In an Ohio survey regarding addiction as a disease, the results of the survey found that statewide 59% think that an alcohol or drug addiction is a disease and 43% believe that alcoholism or addiction is a weakness (Ohio Survey, 2010, p. 7-8). However, these two believed facts are wrong; Alcoholism is a disease and not a weakness. I think by understanding this and that alcoholism is a disease that is not easily controllable, I am accepting to those struggling with alcoholism and inspired by those that choose a life of sobriety. Those suffering from alcoholism and are able to overcome the cravings and disease are some of the strongest people I know. Attending this meeting has been a life-changing experience that has impacted my personally and my future practice as a nurse. I hope to be a nurse that is more accepting, open-minded, and judgment-free to everyone, despite my morals, beliefs, and societal
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Buena High School located in Sierra, Vista, AZ has an uncertain future, until the vice presidents of the school finally shed some light on the top mysterious project. Mr. Duce states “.... Air conditioning obviously needs to be better regulated, we’re getting a second gym. A lot of high schools in the state have two gyms, and probably across the country. They’re making an addition to the performance theatre area. We’re getting LED lighting throughout, which is going to be more cost-effective and hopefully last longer than what we have now. I think the improvements for the school are going to be significant, even though you may not be able to see them.”
The learning world for sophomores at Yucca Valley High School is in shambles. A very small percentage of students from this high school are likely to go to college to pursue their career. Living in an impoverished area does not help the fact that very little people from this town attend universities and get college degrees. Students are also achieving poorly with only one third of the school having a grade point average of 3.0 or above. Students need to have a chance to compete with students from other places so they, too, can go to college and be educated. A typical sophomore schedule consists of an English class, a math class, a science, World History, and physical education. Why are the students achieving poorly? There is a large gap in
The book states “ As we experience living clean with its ups and downs, miracles and struggles, dead ends and open doors, we see the world more clearly and better understanding of our place in it”. It is important to remember that it is not where we have been that counts, but where we are going. We learn from out experience and we should use it to help others. The wisdom grows as we learn to see ourselves; without judging to conclusions. During the assignment I gained faith in myself to conquer over any obstacle. Growing up around drugs and alcohol was not important to me because my family never allowed children around while adults participated in their actions. Stability is important for us to thrive, but there is a difference between being stable and being stuck. Once our addictions takes over our time, mind, and value, we lose ourself. This assignment was needed because I picked up signs that helped distinguish serenity. I learned not to judge others, be ungrateful, and agitated with people with personal issues. Obstacles gave me a chance to challenge myself during the assignment. When we set goals for ourselves, we move toward them a day at a time, knowing that when we’re doing the rights things, the right things tend to
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