Gender Reflection Paper

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Stephanie Clark February 19, 2014 Reflection Paper 1 I do believe there is a major difference in the way boys and girls express emotion. When it comes to showing emotion if a boy shows any he would be consider wimpy by society. Boys that want to show their emotions will more than likely not do so because they are afraid of what society will think of them. According to the text men are defined by their activities, accomplishments and position while women are defined by appearance or by relationship with others (Wood, p. 119). Gender roles are automatically assigned to us from society and it’s based on the activities we do, how we speak, how we act and etc. If we were to do something out of the norm it would definitely be noticed. If a boy publicly shows emotions they would be consider weak. I don’t think it is healthy for anyone to hide their emotions because keeping in your emotions all the time and not sharing it can lead to problems. Not only is society to blame for why boys hide their feelings but parents are sometimes the reason as well. I’m not saying that all parents are th...

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