Erikson And The Spinster

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Erikson and the Spinster: An Essay Exam
According to Erik Erikson’s stages of psychosocial development, culture and society often play a central role in fostering conflict within the ego of a healthy developing individual. Erikson maintained that one’s sense of self develops as the individual successfully resolves predicaments that are derived from a social foundation. Erikson’s model assumes that a crisis will occur at each of the eight stages of growth. Successful completion of a stage results in a vigorous personality and the acquisition of “basic virtues” that can be used to resolve crises in subsequent stages of development. Failure or incompletion of a stage, however, results in a reduced ability to effectuate those that arise later …show more content…

Stagnation” stage of Erikson’s model. It is during this stage that individuals establish their careers, settle down within a relationship and begin families. This stage is paramount to the formation of a sense of belonging and achievement in life. In failing to achieve success within this realm, individuals become stagnant and feel unproductive. It can be irrefutably argued that Emily’s biggest failure within this context is settling down within a relationship. She ultimately becomes a spinster, as her first lover whom she was purported to marry abandons her. Emily’s father drives off many suitors, deeming them not worthy to marry his daughter, and ultimately with no marriage offers in sight she is left single beyond “marrying age”. She falls in love with a man named Homer Barron but it can be argued that she kills him before he has the ability to leave her. Evidence of Erikson’s psychosocial stages is made apparent by her treatment of his body after his death. The room in which Homer’s body is enshrined in seems to be prepared for an impending wedding. A man’s suit is laid out and the room is a pale pink color. The fact that Emily has been sleeping with Homer’s corpse is evidence that her life is quite literally in a state of stagnation. Her world has stagnated around the notion of her failures as a woman and her inability to …show more content…

She encapsulates the epitome of slowing down productivity and nearing retirement in seniority. It is during this stage of Erik Erikson’s model that we contemplate our life’s accomplishments and by extension reflect upon whether or not our lives have been successful. Viewing ones accomplishments as unproductive can produce bouts of guilt about the past and create a sense of general dissatisfaction with life. Miss Brill is an aging lonely woman living in Paris who actively attempts to build a fantasy around herself in order to escape the crushing reality that she is growing old and lonely in her exile. She yearns for acceptance and a sense of belonging that can also be correlated to the “generativity v. stagnation” stage. She also lacks close relationships with people, which has surmounted into depression and overarching

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