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The management of grief
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I had always expected it to feel different. I had based my thoughts only on what I had seen and heard. In my mind it would all happen just as it did on dramatic TV shows. Dramatic was the last word I would ever use to describe myself when it happened. To my undying surprise I felt almost reposeful. Although I could not take my mind off of the matter it did not overwhelm me like I expected it to. My mind floated around in darkness completely consumed into oblivion. Then suddenly my phone rang. I glanced over at my phone and thought to myself “Why the hell is she calling me so early in the morning?” The thought of not answering and just going back to sleep was quickly dismissed and replaced by the rustling of blankets. Still laying in bed I …show more content…
I was surprised to see a blood covered pillow in the bag.
“It’s the pillow Debi was sleeping on, I figured it would be best if no one had to look at it so I brought it back”, my mom replied.
I ran the bag out to the trash thinking how kind my mom was for thinking of taking the pillow with her. When I got back inside I asked her to explain more clearly what had happened the night before.
“Right after we left she was heading into the living room and she fell and hit her head on the hardwood knocking her out. She had done this a few times before so Sean (my mom’s boyfriend) gave her pillow and a blanket and let her sleep, they even heard her snoring so they thought she was fine. But when they got up the next morning she wasn’t breathing. She was already dead.”
My mom finished her face streaked with tears. The following days were very tough for my mother and Debi’s family. We were over at their house almost every day for the next two weeks. The once glowing house had lost all of its charm and became gloomy. There was a blood stain on the carpet where Debi had lain in her final hours, a constant reminder to everyone of what had happened. Throughout everything I still stayed calm and did my best to help everyone with consoling words or even just by doing the chores at the house. Of course nothing could really help how they were feeling except for
“The day that I found out about my mother, I was at school,” he said, “I remember I was on the playground. Somebody came up and said ‘you’re laughing, huh?’ from behind the gate. ‘Your mother is dead.’ The man said.
“The house is settling,” my Italian carer would say as the lights dimmed and glowed in her ghostly presence… but this wasn’t all the house did. I slept in my room. Well, not really slept. Sleep was never something I did much of, especially early on. My worries at seven pm far outweighed my need for sleep. Awake. Forever awake. My father had left me. My mother…
Her body was broken. her neck and legs fractured, though she was still conscious. Our baby son had been thrown clear, clear against another tree. He lay crumpled. on the grass below it, dead.
Nancy was only four years old when her grandmother died. Her grandmother had a big lump on the lower right hand side of her back. The doctors removed it, but it was too late. The tumor had already spread throughout her body. Instead of having a lump on her back, she had a long stitched up incision there. She couldn’t move around; Nancy’s parents had to help her go to the bathroom and do all the simple things that she use to do all by herself. Nancy would ask her grandmother to get up to take her younger sister, Linh, and herself outside so they could play. She never got up. A couple of months later, an ambulance came by their house and took their grandmother away. That was the last time Nancy ever saw her alive. She was in the hospital for about a week and a half. Nancy’s parents never took them to see her. One day, Nancy saw her parents crying and she have never seen them cry before. They dropped Linh and her off at one of their friend’s house. Nancy got mad because she thought they were going shopping and didn’t take her with them.
The door swings open and Yuri stalks into the receiving room. He’s a mammoth of a man and his shoulders are nearly as broad as the door frame. The moment I see him I shrink in my chair and weep into the handkerchief. Yuri tries to smile kindly at me but his eyes narrow and it gives him away. Good, I think. He’s cruel. That means I won’t have to feel bad when he’s
In the wee hours of the morning time moved like dripping tar. The saturnine darkness slinked into every fissure, every crevice of the old theater corrupting all that it touched. A lonesome stage stood waiting for an actor, a comedian, a singer, or any artist to once again use its firm platform to entertain a new. Long had the theater lay dormant. Too many years had passed since the last play had worked its magic for an enthralled audience. Without warning the sound of sobbing broke the quiet of night. Beneath the stage a wretched man lay captive within a small cell. His hair matted, his face dirty and unshaven, his eyes were blood shot from endless tears. And then he jumped like an animal to cling from the bars. He tossed his head back to howl
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Two months have passed since the day you left me. Like a child waiting impatiently for Christmas morning to arrive, I awake each morning hoping to receive something or anything from you, only to be disappointed. I'll never forget your cold firm grip on my hand the day you dropped me at my family's house or my mothers face that whitened as you left. She screamed at me and I fizzed in the fire. I was slowing fading into oblivion as life was slowly being sucked out of her.
My mom got up from the table and came over to me, gripping my shoulders. She said, “What did you do to him? Don’t you know I don’t have money for a funeral or to pay his family back? I need you to do the laundry. There is also food in the kitchen that I got yesterday from the old man I had to go watch.”
Is there any time that I have ever thought of committing suicide? Unfortunately, yeah. Each moment I sit at that corner, suicidal thoughts hits me, pleading for transformation and change. Apparently, every day I am alive, I ask myself, what if one day I jumped on the street? I only need to wait for something bigger such as a truck or a bus, and I am dead. In fact, that big object will not miss me, and I will have less time to feel the pain, but all my sufferings and trials will reach the end. No pain anymore! However, is there anyone to miss me? No no. I have no kids, friends or relatives to cry for me when I am gone.
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She shakes me trying to wake me. “Kate, Kate!” she was frantically yelling. I sat up in my bed trying my best to look groggy. “Where’s your father?” she asked me. Her eyes were filled with tears and worry, almost like she knew he was gone.