INTRODUCTION
“Personality begins where comparison ends- Karl Lagerfeld © 2011.” This quote is a foreshadow for what is to follow, for a 100 freshman residents and their Residence Assistant. Not all roommates will be your best friends but not all will be your enemy. It is important to know during your young adult life, which types of people are compatible for your personality to ensure a smooth and fun living experience.
Roommate Similarity and Communication Traits
The article that I chose to write for my paper was, Roommate Similarity: Are Roommates Who are Similar in Their Communication Traits More Satisfied, by Matthew M. Martin (West Virginia University) and Carolyn M. Anderson (University of Akron). “The study investigated roommates who were similar in their communication traits would express more satisfaction and affection for their roommates (Anderson & Martin, 1995, p.46).” The study decided to look into three specific personality traits; Willingness to Communicate, Interpersonal Communication Competence, and Verbal Aggression (Anderson & Martin, 1995, p.46). Both Anderson and Martin came up with three hypotheses to find an answer to their questions.
HI: “Roommates who are both high in willingness to communicate will report higher social affinity and communication satisfaction than roommates who are (a) both low in willingness to communicate or (b) where one roommate is low and the other is high (Anderson & Martin, 1995, p.47).”
This explains, that people who are more willing to communicate with one another were more likely to receive positive feedback from another person, increasing the satisfaction between each other (Anderson & Martin, 1995, p.47).
H2: “Roommates who are both high in interpersonal communication ...
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...rbal Aggressiveness total ranged from 10.00 to 50.00 (M=23.62, SD=5.56). (Anderson & Martin, 1995, p.48)
The study surrendered many important results. First, the results proved that “Roommates who are prosocially similar (e.g., both low in verbal aggressiveness versus both high in verbal aggressiveness) express more satisfaction with and liking for their roommates (Anderson & Martin, 1995, p.50).” Those roommates who were both high in verbal aggressive have a less satisfying relationship, since this trait is damaging (Anderson & Martin, 1995, p.50). Second, roommates who claimed they were high in Willingness to Communicate or Interpersonal Communication Competence relationships found their relationships more satisfying. Finally, this study overall proved if people think they are comparable to another person the more they liked them (Anderson & Martin, 1995, p.50).
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It is not all about communication” . It says that not surprisingly those couples who reported communicating more effectively showed the highest satisfaction with their relationships. But the next two reasons which were also the only other ones with strong links to couple happiness, were knowledge of partner which included everything from knowing their pizza-topping preferences to their hopes and dreams and life skills like being able to hold a job, manage money, etc . But in order to have a healthy relationship I do believe that the communication is key but they also do need to know how to communicate in a healthy way that will not cause
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