Thesis About Interpersonal Communication

I Introduction

A. Thesis Statement
There is no doubt that conflict occurs in every human institution including professional, unions, and educational and vocational environment. However effective exchange ideas through communication can greatly minimize the effects of marital conflict. Studies have suggested that couples remain married if they successfully manage their interpersonal communication on the basis of accommodating individual differences, problem resolving skills, forgiveness, collective decision making, empathy and above all positive conflict management.

II. Body paragraph#1- Topic Sentence #1
The need for interpersonal communication across all human endeavors is growing especially in the context of

marriage institution. Effective interpersonal communication can only materialize if individuals in a relationship adore and respect individual differences of each other’s viewpoint.

A. Supporting Evidence
The ability to accommodate the uniqueness of partners is the foundation upon which effective communication between couples can build, grow and blossom. According to Periot & Robin, (1987) “ One of the most common problems among families is inability to easily accept the differences and uniqueness of individual partners.”

B. Explanation
It a common believe in marriage that “opposite attract” and this is an important aspect that most people including couples ignore. Couples often find it overwhelming to talk about similarities and ignoring their difference in the process, which could be a potential setback if left unresolved.

C. So What?
Couples concentrate on similarities instead of getting to know each other.

It is vital that individual differences are ironed out through open discussion by identifying and accommodating them in a mutually exclusive interpersonal communication. Personal communication is the foundation of resolving individual differences, which go a long way to produce harmony, respect and love into the relationship. The exchange of information, feelings, and meaning through verbal and non-verbal messages appreciate make marriage last till eternity.
III Paragraph #2 Topic Sentence #2
Human institution are not perfect, so is married couples. Effective interpersonal communication is essential in resolving frequent problem that arise from every human marriage.

A. Supporting Evidence
According to article entitled “ Marriage Quality” published by Comstock and Sterzizweick in 1990 states that “it is not absence or presence of problem which determines the marriage quality but it is how successful to handle conflicts, that determine marital relationship quality.

B Explanation
The long-term success of marriage is measured by how effective and efficient individual couples exchange and express their feeling not only to address the problem that might arise but most important how they resolve it through

communication.

C. So What?
Even though there will be multiple problems in the course of the marriage, open and effective interpersonal communication with individual partners is the most efficient way of resolving them amicably.

IV. Body paragraph #3 Topic Sentence #3
Further more, it is important to acknowledge that, to have a healthy and progressive relationship, individual partners must, as a matter of necessity, be prepared to learn to forgive and forget. This is fundamental in every successful marriage.

A. Supporting Evidence
An article in Journal of Family Psychology titled “Forgiveness and relationship satisfaction: Mediating mechanisms,” reveals the positive impact forgiveness can have on a relationship. There are of course many other characteristics of a healthy relationship such as trust and honesty.

B. Explanation
Couples must have an open communication between themselves about their mistakes and shortcomings in an honest manner with the promise to make amends. This could be done in an environment of mutual respect and through the use of interpersonal communication skill. Doing this does not only save the marriage but also it brings harmony, care and love between the couple.

C. So What?
Given how often couple holds grudges against someone; even the littlest thing can fuel a conflict. Forgiveness brings a sense of fresh start and a new opportunity for couples to renew their commitment to each other. It is crucial that interpersonal communication is effective and efficient in addressing any concerns that each partner might have.

V. Conclusion
A. Thesis Statement
Today more than ever before, couples face diverse form of marital difficulties and challenges like any human endeavor. These trials make it even more vital to enforce effective communication between couples to address and resolve the multifaceted and complicated challenges that come their way. Finding a common ground on personality, amicable resolution of conflict and forgiveness through open discussion are essential determinant of successful marriage.

References

Boyd, L. A., & Roach, A. J. (1977). Interpersonal communication skills differentiating more satisfying from less satisfying marital relationships. Journal Of Counseling Psychology, 24(6), 540-542. doi:10.1037/0022-0167.24.6.540

Wilner, J. (2011). Why Forgiveness is a Major Part of Relationship Success. Psych Central. Retrieved on December 9, 2015, from http://blogs.psychcentral.com/positive-psychology/2011/08/why-forgiveness-is-major-key-in-relationship-success/

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