A Mate Should Be Considered As Cheating

The prompt above emphasize whether or not having a sexual explicit dialogue with someone else online should be considered as “cheating.” The prompt is consider as lexical types and definition by subclass because the meaning are very straight forward. In this case the mate is clearly having a sexual conversation with someone else, which proves the mate is fantasizing about someone else while they already committed to a relationship. Therefore, the mate is considered as cheated, because when people committed to a relationship any private or sensitive topic should be discuss within the two instead of seeking for other. Also, they should understand the fact that to be in a relationship with someone is all about trust, respect, responsibilities

and faithful to their partner whether in term of physical or mental.
According to the Oxford Dictionary website provides that: 1.

Sexual define in adjective term is “relating to the instincts, physiological processes, and activities connected with physical attraction or intimate physical contact between individuals” (Oxford). 2. Cheat is define in informal term is “be sexually unfaithful” (Oxford). Sexual activity can easily lead people to cheat on their partner, and it’s also known as one of the most common mistake people do. The reason for their action can come from many things such as physical satisfaction, relationship problem, sudden gap in a relationship, etc. Based on the definition, even though the mate did not have any physical sexual activity with other people, but the fact that the mate is thinking of having sexual activity verbally with someone else already proves that they are unfaithful to their partner. However, other people may consider about how long the relationship has been going between the couple, I still do not see any reason for my partner to have a sexual activity/conversation through social media with others than myself. For example, Alex and Jen is a couple. Somehow, they get into a fight and neither of them willing to put down their brave and apologize or simply want to clear the situation out this situation is define as “gap”. Suddenly, Jen met this one guy in the library and somehow got to exchange number with him. They texted and talked a lot on the phone and through social media. Time passed and somehow their conversation no longer stay in the “friend-zone” and more forward sexual thing. This just proved that Jen is unfaithful to Alex, because she not only did not want to clear the issue with him but instead she seeking for other surrounded. Even Jen did not have any idea of cheating in mind, but by her letting the guy step across the border line of friend and talk about private thing and did nothing about it when her boyfriend and her is fighting. In my opinion, I believe couple always fight over

silly things and to prove the other partner is faithful or not is based on this moment of period. To test whether or not they can stand the loneliness and how strong the relationship is actually at for both of them willing to put down their brave and reach out for each other. A gap in relationship can be short or long depend on the couple, but in between the gap many things can happens and some people think they cannot say or do anything because at that “gap” they consider themselves as single. I strongly disagree on that, because as long as there is no “break-up” been brought up then they are not single.
On the other hand, to look at the positive side that my mate might be seeking help from other people about sexual advice or tips. This is not consider as cheating, but I still consider it as disrespectful to the other partner, because a private topic like this should be brought to a professional psychologist since it does contain more than one person on the private issue. By disrespectful, I mean is when a certain topic contain more than one person problem it’s should be only keep as between the two parties that is involve. The prompt did clearly state that the mate had a clearly sexual conversation with someone else, therefore, my positive statement is less likely to happen.
Frequently, in my own belief when two people committee to a relationship, time no longer counts and they should understand the border line between things they can and cannot let it happen or do with other people around them. Many relationships fail due to unfaithful situations like this happen every day. People are unaware and think it’s not a big deal and should be over looked that it can lead to serious cause later which will be result in the relationship. Instead of waiting for the mate to actually have a physical sexual activity with other people, I would like to bring it up and verify everything when the first sign of cheating is been shown.
In conclusion, based on all the facts including negative and positive thought/situation my mate did in fact cheated on me by mental thought and fantasized with other girls on an electronic chat room.