kenneth

When it comes to Marriage it has it ups and downs. In my opinion marriage is more of a positive thing rather than negative, it is a partnership rather than a “one way avenue”. It is a stage in life where you find peace with your mate and kids also. Marriage is a blessing when is comes to religion, and is sacred. There are pros and cons to marriage also.

I wonder sometimes the meaning of marriage. Marriage is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws. The vague definition can differ between cultures, which we can get into later. Marriage is always a good thing, it bring upon a new found happiness for family and the couple. Some marriages don’t always last either, simply by lack of communication and something that people shouldn’t take very lightly. I wonder why do most American marriage’s end up in a divorce.

Getting married to a woman that you find that you can spend the rest of your life with is a positive thing, but the negative side of that is in some case’s the family that you might have the problem with. In my personal case I found a woman that I truly love, but from the lack of communication that the family has it make it difficult for us just to be happy. Me personally I feel that since my girl is the only child and found happiness other than her mom and dad, they don’t know how to accept our happiness. This is a small matter to me because, I’m willing to find patience and handle the issue accordantly. With the lack of communication that the parents have with me and our happiness, this is a form of negativity going into our marriage. I would need her parents blessing to...

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...e, and the partner doesn’t mind taking care of home if it is one sided, this shows that there is a strong bond between the couple in marriage.

With all of the aspects playing a part in marriage, either good or bad there should be equal in a marriage. You should value a marriage, because it is still a relationship that needs to be handled with care. The positive’s should always outweigh the negatives in the relationship, now that depends on the partner or yourself personally. Marriage is something that is supposed to grow as you get older in age and also in stages in life. Although marriage is love, and it is not simple, you have to fight for something that you want to work. In my case I don’t believe in divorce, the woman I decide to settle down with and have kids will know every aspect of my life, and know what areas I will improve in, and have understanding.