In the last years, it is common that couples get a divorce. Trough, the year's people, have forgotten what romantic love is.When a couple marries must be entirely sure, they must know and love each other with flaws and virtues.It is true that real life is not like a fairy tale where everything is happiness, sometimes there will be arguments, but if there is enough love, couples will know how to solve it.There are real love histories, and that is why people should believe in real love. Also, it may be that sometimes marriages get hurt, but what love do is allows forgiveness.
Romantic love is significant in a marriage, it is something that is not easy, but if there is enough love, it will not be difficult. Sometimes people do not know how to
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However; there are still solutions to solve any problem, it does not matter if it is big or small. One way to solve the problem is to have excellent communication. The author of Blending families states that "People can not communicate while using their cell phones, watch TV or flip through the sports section"(Sorgen Carol). Another way to keep a good relationship is to avoid problems related to money, both should be honest about their financial situation and if there are economic problems support each other always looking for the best solution, determine goals or decide which one will pay the bill for the next coming month.A third significant problem couples should not have forgotten that the loved one is the priority. Sometimes people forget about the importance of giving priority to his or her pair.Most of the time it is so much workload, fatigue, and daily life, that makes people forget the small details. It is essential to avoid monotony and instead of that, go to romantic dates, respect one another and show …show more content…
However; if marriage wants to be happy, each of them need to give their best to have a good relationship, they also have to respect each other, have patience and always talk about their problems or dreams. As a matter of the fact that romantic love is essential and that exists, some marriages have been together for more than fifty years; their secrets are not expensive, or impossible ones, in fact, they are as familiar and accessible as patience, love, and respect. Today's couples should value the essence of marriage and should put on a scale what is most important and give their beloved the value they deserve. It is essential to learn to love as couples did before
In today’s society, there is nothing that is seen as a perfect marriage. Love and hate are both closely intertwined in our brain, making them the two most intense emotions. It is bazar to think that one can go from loving someone to hating (disliking) that certain individual, or from hating (disliking) that individual to falling mad in love with them. Society creates a barrier that makes one believe on what a loving relationship should be. In many occasions negativity and other factors come to play in a loving relationship. Even though love can over power hate, hate and other negatives can come out at the starting point of love because of infidelity, resentment, and other disappointments in a relationship.
The long-term success of marriage is measured by how effective and efficient individual couples exchange and express their feeling not only to address the problem that might arise but most important how they resolve it through
Above all, to have a successful marriage, the couple must love unconditionally. Love covers a multitude of mistakes and wrong doings. No one is perfect, so don’t expect your spouse to be. Spouses should show their partner the type of love they would like to receive.
Marriage is something most people do but few do it well. If a couple is not looking at divorce papers that are probably seeking marriage counseling. If they are not screaming to the top of their lungs at each other they are probably sneaking out to lie in someone else’s arms. If they are not physically abusing one or the other they are probably being mentally abusive. If a couple is not saying hurtful things to each other they are probably not saying anything at all because why would they when the other is not going to listen anyways. We have all been in or seen relationships struggle with these kinds of things. This big question is where did they go wrong? I think the answer to that question lies in Matt Chandler’s book The Mingling of Souls. Chandler’s answer to the question above is that if a couple wants to have a truly successful marriage they must follow God’s design for marriage. Now Chandler is in no way implying that a couple will not struggle if they do it God’s way but they will be able to get through those struggles together. This review is not a summary of the book but it will discuss the strength and weaknesses of
First of all, in the play “Midsummer Night’s Dream” by William Shakespeare, Lysander says “The course of true love never did run smooth” which means love can be hard and strenuous work. Love does not always work out and sometimes it does. When it does work out though, it can be very hard. You have to share the things you have and try not to make each other mad. When you’re living together that’s pretty hard because your spouse...
The world knows that marriage is a mutual commitment between two adults that will evolve into a group to live as one. Unfortunately conflicts in marriage are not uncommon infidelity, children, and money are the causes of divorce, lack of interest is is also another reason. Couples of all ages, religion, race and gender often drift apart and that is the reality of marriage. The courts actions can make a relationship turn ugly, often using the children as puppets to gain the support of the
A husband and wife do not appear to be a choice that means ?forever? anymore. When a person plans to marry, it should be when they are ready to start a family and begin acting responsibly. All marriages have their ups and downs, and we are prone to argue; but we need to let love conquer hate, not the other way around. The divorce rate is too high and it affects everybody. There should be no reason for a person to give up their marriage for selfish reasons. Arguments between husband and wife occur, of course; but when something is wrong, it should be worked-out peacefully. The meaning of a divorce is betrayal; it?s unfair and the cruelest situation to put your ?loved? one through. For instance, if a man wants to divorce his wife aft...
Marital satisfaction, something that everyone would like to find an equation for, is the goal that all married couplesnaturally wish to achieve. Since marital satisfaction obviously has a direct relationship to marital stability, the more satisfaction that is achieved within a marriage, the more stable and more positive the relationship. This stability is accomplished through hard work and communication between the partners, and a mutual understanding of what part each must play in the relationship.
Divorce has become a phenomenon of the modern world and is grabbing attention of numerous nations as well as the media. Divorce rates are escalating in a global perspective however the increase is not as rapid as it used to be a few decades ago. Developed countries, such as the US, England and Wales are experiencing a gradual decrease in divorce rates and marriage rates since 1980 and is showing no sign of increasing. Divorce affects a wide population especially because of the development of
In real life situations relationships can be perplexing. When problems surface, people tend to get absorbed and deal with specifics at hand and ignore the main source of the problem. As a result, failure to comprehend the dynamics underlying our relationships leads to unresolved conflicts, therefore, leaving people stuck on the same problematic issues. Millar & Roger () indicate three basic dynamics, which include power, affect and respect. These dynamics always feature in relationships and they continuously influence our behaviour. Tackling underlying larger issued enables parties involved to see what is going on, therefore resolving their differences. In today’s world couples fight about specific issues such as money, sex, other people, how to raise the children, how to spend their free time and distribution of household duties. This essay will discuss couples (Sarah & John) dynamics as represented in a case study with reference to
Aside from the science behind love, a relationship cannot subsist upon affection alone. While a sense of endearment is helpful, it is not the most important part of a successful relationship. A couple must learn to communicate effectively in order to move forward in their relationship, a couple must also have a personal compatibility and be able to complement each other well. A couple must also be flexible with each other and be able to resolve conflict well, in order to have a workable relationship. Unfortunately, very few couples realize the amount of effort that must be put into a relationship and enter into things blindly. Many could argue that this is why, on average, a marriage in the US only lasts about 8.8 years and American marriages have a divorce rate of over 40 percent.
...think that talking through problems and not going to bed angry is important. Solving problems the time they arise can help ease the stress and if a couple goes to bed angry it makes the matter worse. “A lasting marriage results from a couple's ability to resolve the conflicts that are inevitable in any relationship. Many couples tend to equate a low level of conflict with happiness and believe the claim "we never fight" is a sign of marital health. But I believe we grow in our relationships by reconciling our differences. That's how we become more loving people and truly experience the fruits of marriage” (Gottman, 2012). Lastly, finding simple things to do for each other is the key to a successful marriage. Living with the same person for 30+ or more years can get routine and boring. By finding ways to surprise or make the other happy, they can keep the love alive.
However, this generation’s youth believe that finding life partner through love leads to a happy and joyful life. Men and women want to live their life by their own choice not according to what their family decides for them. A man and woman is going to spend their whole life together not two families. Furthermore, a couple who has dated and talked with each other before marriage, know each other very well. There is no contingency of being misunderstood, likewise, they are aware of each other’s likes and dislikes. Finding true love needs time and this time is definitely before marriage, after you got married to someone who you do not even
My parents got married in 1977. They are into thirty-eighth year of their conjugal life. My dad is a government officer and my mom is a housewife. I talked to my dad first about the success of their marriage. The first thing he mentioned about my mom was her nature. She is the rock of the family. She is cool head and thinker. There were few problems that came along in past. But they helped each other to defeat those problems. Thirty-five years ago, our society was different. Nobody has ever heard of the term ‘Divorce’. There was a kind of pressure from society to stay together in any condition. So, my parents’ generation hardly got divorced. This, in a way helped the couple of that generation to know each other better because divorce was the distant option. My mom mentioned about this fact that she still does not know anybody who have had divorced. She told me understanding each other, complimenting each other and giving emotional support to each other are the important aspects of their marriage life. Trusting each ot...
That shows us how love can turn on the insanity of human. In “The Story of an Hour”, Mrs. Mallard felt joyful but not depressed after her husband died since she can get freedom from this. That shows us how love kill and bury romance of relationship. Therefore, people think marriage is the graveyard of the romance and I think this is true after I read these stories since there are strong examples in these stories and make me think why people still maintain this system even they afraid of