Women in Management of Grief and A Pair of Tickets

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Women in Management of Grief and A Pair of Tickets

Both Management of Grief and A Pair of Tickets were written by women and about

women. Authors were able to portray an image of women which differs from the

traditional, stereotypical literary image of feeble and delicate creatures who

needed to be cared for. Women in these stories were faced with horrible

tragedies, but the determining element in their experience was not so much what

happened to them but how they took it.

After reading first few pages of Management of Grief one may see Shaila as

"traditional" Indian woman who due to her upbringing was not even comfortable

enough with her own husband: "I was too much the well brought up woman. I was

so well brought up I never felt comfortable calling my husband by his first

name" (Mukherjee 537). For a person who grew up in North American society this

revelation may seem to come from an oppressed female, but later on in the story

we learn that protagonist could stand up for herself and for other women, like

in the airport incident. There again we were reminded of the way she was

brought up: "Once upon a time we were well brought up women; we were dutiful

wives who kept our heads veiled, our voices shy and sweet" (543). Only this

time the statement is ironic. Shaila's actions show us that she is far from the

voiceless, week female she was brought up to be.

Shaila was not responsible for her own heredity. She could not control much of

her environment ...

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