Who Is Friar Lawrence To Blame In Romeo And Juliet?

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Everybody’s personality is different, some are outgoing some are shy, but not everybody is so easy to figure out. In Romeo and Juliet by Shakespeare, this seems to be the case for a lot of the characters. In this play, about two young kids getting secretly wed and eventually committing suicide, there is heaps of bad decisions and misdirection. Many of these bad decisions come from Romeo and Juliet, the two lovers, who both dive into a marriage a day after first meeting. Yet, the blame should not be placed on these naive kids but rather on their mentor, Verona’s town Friar, who agrees to secretly marry them, keeps vital information to himself, and ultimately orchestrates their double suicide. Friar Lawrence, who is usually seen as the voice …show more content…

Romeo comes to the Friar begging him to marry him and Juliet. Although he is hesitant at first he very quickly gives in and agrees to marry them. In her analysis Napierkowski points out, “He thinks that Romeo’s shift in affection from Rosaline to Juliet is sudden and hasty, but he agrees to marry them because he thinks it may help to end the hatred between the feuding households” (Friar Lawrence.1). Friar Lawrence is quick to agree to marry the two young lovers because he thinks it will help the families but, he neglects to consider that this marriage can’t help the families if they are unaware of it. Also, he doesn't think about the consequences it will have on the young lovers, like the possibility of them attempting to run away from home or kill themselves. After Romeo tells him he has moved on from Rosaline and onto Juliet, Friar Lawrence and Romeo exchange these words, “ Thou chid’st me oft for loving …show more content…

After Romeo is exiled to Mantua, Juliet is distraught at the loss of her husband and has no idea what to do. Turning to Friar Lawrence for guidance, Juliet demands a solution or threatens a worse fate. For example, Juliet is so devastated she says this “Tell me not, Friar, that thou hearest of this, unless thou tell me how I may prevent it. If in thy wisdom thou canst give no help, do thou but call my resolution wise, and with this knife I’ll help it presently” (4.1.51-55). After seeing Juliet so hysterical and threatening to kill herself, Friar Lawrence decides to keep this to himself and sneak her out of Verona with an elaborate scheme. This in itself shows how ill-advised he is because instead of telling her parents that she is unstable he keeps it hidden for no good reason. This also contradicts his original plan to use the marriage to bring peace within the families because now all he is doing is helping their children run away together. The Friar is unwise because he does not tell Juliet’s family about her suicide threats and comes up with a ludicrous plan to help two young children run away

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