To help my peers and I become a more culturally competent we chose to watch the movie “What’s Eating Gilbert Grape” in hopes to become more aware and knowledgeable about the differences of values and beliefs in our society. What’s Eating Gilbert Grape; a film produced in 1993, address many issues everyday people face in society such as socioeconomic struggle and mental or physical discrimination. Plot The film takes place in the small town not filled with much but the local businesses and towns people. The film focuses on an interesting relationship between two brothers, Gilbert and Arnie Grape. Gilbert is a hardworking kid taking care of his mentally challenged brother, Arnie, who can be a handful at times. The boys live in a rundown house …show more content…
with their two sisters and morbidly obese mother, Bonnie. Their father committed suicide, which sent Bonnie into deep depression. Bonnie is unable to care for her family and hasn’t left the house in several years. Gilbert works hard to support his family but is becoming hopeless for change and at times embarrassed of his family. Gilbert meets Becky, a tourist whose trailer broke down while passing threw town, and she helps him through the struggle while changing the way he views his life. The film puts a lot of emphasis on the external appearance of the characters while stripping that away so you can see the person on the inside. I think the main theme of the story is similar to the popular clique, “don’t judge a book by its cover.” The film shows you it’s about what you do, not what you look like that defines you. Diversity Themes Physical Disability In America about one third of the population is considered obese.
The film gives its viewer the opportunity to see how obese individuals are treated and viewed in today’s society. Bonnie is a very obese woman who rarely moves from the couch. She hasn’t made it to her bed upstairs in years, the children have to set a dinner table up next to her to eat a family meal, and she hasn’t left the house in seven years. She is so embarrassed of herself and refuses to have anyone but family around her. The film shows children sneaking to the window making fun of her and taking pictures of her on the couch. Gilbert even refers to her as a “beached wale.” One day Arnie gets into a little trouble and ends up in the police station. Bonnie is beyond disbelief and demands to be taken to the station. With great bravery and strength she walks her way into the station to save her beloved son. A crowd gathered at the station as they whisper to one another and took pictures during one of Bonnies most courage’s moments. At this point Gilbert started to have faith in his mother, seeing the true strength and love she has for her family. We live in a society that has sets standards and defines how our lives are supposed be, what we are supposed to look like, and what we are supposed to do with our lives. The film shows us the character Bonnie that by modern standards is viewed as grotesque. As the film strips away her outer appearance you see strong loving person she is on the inside. It’s important …show more content…
to accept people for who they are and try to understand why they are that way. Everyone is unique and has a reason for the life they live. Socioeconomic Status Due to Gilberts fathers death and his mothers obesity Gilbert is forced to sacrifice his life in order provide and care for his family. When he isn’t working to money he’s taking care of Arnie. He has so much responsibility that when he tries to enjoy his life or do something fun, Arnie usually ends up in trouble or hurt. He loves his brother dearly but at times he gets frustrated. In society there are many people struggling to support their family.
Being in a lower socioeconomic status puts a lot of stress on the caretakers of the family. The film shows the struggles Gilbert has taking care of his family while trying to be a normal boy. Compared to a normal boy Gilberts age, he is put under an immense amount of stress and responsibility. Other families that are wealthy in the film aren’t struggling or working as hard as Gilbert is to support his family. The film gives the viewer an opportunity to see how life is for the underprivileged families trying to get by. Gilberts life is stressful and complicated but yet he still finds meaning and happiness in what he has. It goes back the theme of the film, don’t judge a book by its cover. You don’t know what someone’s gone through or what they have done to get where they are today, its best to approach new people empathy and the desire to understand
them. Self Reflection While watching the movie it really made me realize how easy it is to stereotype people. When I first saw Bonnie I was in disbelief of how big she was. Throughout the film you see how disgraced and ashamed she is of herself and how others in her community view her. I felt really bad for the way Bonnie had to live her life in fear of others judging her. She was already ashamed and embarrassed of herself as is but the people around her made her feel even worse to the point where she never wanted to leave the house. I don’t think anyone should ever feel this way and live in fear of others. When she went to the police station to get Arnie it made me cry. She was so strong going against everything she was afraid and the public just ridiculed her by talking about her in her presence and taking photos of her. It made me cry cause I realized that actually happens in real life. I don’t think anyone should ever be treated like that because they are different. The movie taught me to approach every new person with care and the desire to understand and learn more about them. In the nursing practice you care for a variety of individuals. It doesn’t matter what clothes their wearing, the color of the their skin, whether they have showered that day or haven’t in weeks, their job occupation, or socioeconomic status; all that matters is the person under the skin. They have come to you as a nurse and it’s your job to provide the best healthcare you can. Conclusion What’s eating Gilbert Grape is a great story but has an even better meaning. I would give it a 5. The Film genuinely shows its viewer how society treats individuals when they aren’t considered “normal.” The film puts a focus on the external appearances of the characters, but shows you how amazing the people are under the skin. Like I’ve mentioned it’s about what you do, not what you look like that defines you.
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