We Should Give Children Participation Trophy

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Claim: As a kid, did you ever receive a participation trophy? Do you still have that trophy, probably not? Instead of giving kids meaningless awards when they lose, we should teach them how to show good sportsmanship. When we give children participation awards, it gives them the false implication that in life, everybody wins. At some point, we must show them that sometimes, even if you want something, you might not get it. Understandably, parents and coaches want it to be fair to all the kids, but it gives children the idea that they don't have to work hard or try because they will get the reward no matter what. It's not fair to the kids that win, either. They put in all this effort just to get the same reward as the kids who put in half as …show more content…

What happens when kids get older, and they don't get these trophies anymore? They won't know how to lose, most likely resulting in children acting out. They won't understand how to lose grace. It is equally as difficult for the winners because they might not understand how to win with humility. They could intentionally, or unintentionally, brag about their winning and only make the other team feel worse. "These shiny bits of plastic have been blamed for creating an entitled generation," says Lisa Heffernan. They created groups of kids who don't know how to properly win or lose. Based on the fact that they feel like they never have. Support 2: At some point in their lives, kids will have to come to terms with the fact that not everybody can win. Instead of trying to teach that fact to a spoiled teenager, why not teach it at a young age? There are no participation trophies in life, and if you want something, you have to work for it. If you want to go to a good college, get good grades. If you want to be in varsity football, practice consistently. Nothing is ever handed to you. You're not going to be put on varsity just because you went to tryouts. In the article "Do we all deserve

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