Victim Blaming Sociology

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On the other hand young men are not alone in distinguishing between consensual sex and rape. “In a survey of college students by the National Institute of Justice, fourteen percent of women said someone had sexual contact with them when they were passed out or too drunk to be able to stop or provide consent” (Banks). Only about thirty-seven percent of women in this study believed what happened to them was rape and the rest of the women did not consider it sexual assault or rape. “Instead of warning women not to get blackout drunk, Kenny said, we need to educate men that it's not okay to have sex with someone who isn’t sober enough to consent” (Banks). The State of Minnesota passed a law that requires each post-secondary institution to train …show more content…

Victim blaming is a leading problem correlated to the fifty-four percent of unreported rapes (“Victims… Statistics.” ). Most people in society do not realize victim blaming is a problem or realize they blame the victims. A reason people tend to label or accuse the victim so quickly is they get the opportunity to view the victim differently than themselves. “By thinking, ‘Because I am not like her, because I do not do that, this would never happen to me.’ reassures non-victims and we need to help the non-victims understand that this is not a helpful reaction,” (“Southern Connecticut State University.”). Victim-blaming makes it easier for victims to turn away from reporting their assault. People who blame the victim reinforce what rapists have been saying all along; that is, it the victim’s fault this happened. This real life story explains how victims blaming convinced a fifteen-year-old girl, who goes by the name E, started to believe her attack was her …show more content…

The long dark haired boy, Rob, approached E and told her he wanted to be with her. “What about your girlfriend?”, said E. “We’re done,” Rob said, with his breath all warm and gooey from the alcohol. He kissed E on the neck and said, “Come on. I’ll drive you home.” Sitting in the back of his car in an empty parking lot, E and Rob started sucking on each others lips once again. She could feel Rob being impatient, cold, and aggressive, but she was trying to find the feelings from the walk in the woods. Rob ripped off her clothes, demanding her to turn over so he could enter from the behind. Unwilling to have sex, E turned over trying to push Rob away, but it did not work. “I think we should stop. Rob, I don’t think I want to,” said E, realizing this was not the Rob she fell in love with. Constantly kissing E to keep her quiet was Rob’s intention. Whimpering and telling Rob nicely to stop over twenty times in vain. Finally, E screamed, “I want to stop. Please Stop!” So he climbed off of E and put his clothes

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