Two Girls Shows Maturity of Growing Up
Maturity grows on people to show them to the point of how they act and learn from what they have done. Jing Mei was a girl in two kinds and matures in her later life. The author states that Jing Mei did not try throughout her life from the piano and her mother. Both of the stories compare and are similar of both girls growing up.
The “Old Witch”, A woman named Ms. Lottie that would live for her marigolds even for her life even so. Elizabeth was confused of how she felt of her emotions and did not know what to do and thought of her as a witch because of her maturity. Elizabeth did not fully understand how Ms. Lottie felt about her marigolds, it was really her life. After the destruction of the marigolds, Ms. Lottie expression changed and began to be deeply sad. Elizabeth was blinded by her childlike conscious.
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The theme is shown in the story “Those who are obedient and those who follow their own mind”.
The mother wanted the daughter to be obedient because of the daughter becoming upset. Jing Mei mother was disappointed in her for all of mistakes she had done in her past life because of her awful piano recital and disobeying her mother. “You want me to be somebody that I’m not, by that she wanted her life to be the same. Jing Mei stopped playing for a few years on her piano during the past years during their fights but in the later years. “Only two kinds of daughters, she wants her daughter to be obedient to her mother and have a perfect life to accomplish when she grows
up. In the story the quote “Lizabeth you lost you , Elizabeth was very confused either to destroy the marigolds. Lizabeth wasn’t very mature because she was not able to control herself in her childish ways and didn’t understand what she felt.
People can grow up rather fast, but some need the time to make mistakes and mature. In the book The Clay Lion, Amalie Jahn visualizes this when Brooke has to deal with the hardships that come with her brother Branson’s death. When Brooke’s life takes a turn for the worse, she made many mistakes, however she gradually comes of age by accepting Branson’s death and becoming selfless.
Through fresh writing, the character of Witch is allowed to have the most contradictions, therefore blurring the rigid binary of good vs bad, an idea ingrained in popular culture for eons, in effect making her the play’s most human character. This is key to de mystifying the Grimm Brother’s fairy tale “Rapunzel”, as she is no longer placed in a 2 dimensional mold of evil figure. While her defining moments in the text are marked by unexplained rage, jealousy and retribution lensed with zero objective perspective within into the Woods she is given opportunity to be viewed in a more well rounded light as she is central in everyone else’s story allowing the audiences to experience more of her. Through this there is chance to
“Only two kinds of daughters,” “Those who are obedient and those who follow their own mind!”(476). When a mother pushes her daughter to hard, the daughter rebels, but realizes in the end that their mothers only wanted the best for them and had their best interest at heart. In the beginning, Jing-mei, is “just as excited as my mother,”(469). Jing-mei eagerly hoped to make her mother proud. However, her mother’s obsession with becoming a prodigy discouraged Jing-mei.
Coming of age is essential to the theme of many major novels in the literary world. A characters journey through any route to self-discovery outlines a part of the readers own emotional perception of their own self-awareness. This represents a bridge between the book itself and the reader for the stimulating connection amongst the two. It is seen throughout Paradise of the Blind by Duong Thu Huong, Hang’s coming of age represents her development as a woman, her changing process of thinking, and her ability to connect to the reader on a personal level.
As well as how they attempt to pass on their love, hope and wisdom from tragic experiences to their daughters. In general, the emotional relationship between these four mother-daughter pairs is revealed by several interrelated stories. One of the mothers, Suyuan, was forced to abandon her twin babies during the war in her early lives, so she consistently pushed Jing-mei to succeed in piano. But the more expectations and hopes from Suyuan towards Jing-mei, the more doubts for Jing-mei to ignore her own talents and abilities.
Much like to their parents and elders, Chinese girls were supposed to be quiet and obedient to their husbands and mothers-in-law. Girls were supposed to respect, and not openly question the decisions that were made in the household. These women were taught to always ask what the husband wants and to ignore their own wants and needs. Chinese wives were there mainly to provide the mother-in-law with grandsons.
Child rearing is given utmost importance in China and is especially the case with daughters. A girl child was supposed to listen to her mother - only by listening to one’s mother will the girl’s life prosper. If she goes against her mother her life would ultimately become a disaster. It is clearly stated in the novel when Rose Hsu Jordan’s mother says,
She cared for people. She cared for Miss Lottie. At this moment all she wanted to do was apologize. She felt guilty. The guiltiest she has ever felt in her entire life. She single-handedly ruined the one thing Miss Lottie had a hope for in this world. Lizabeth grew up and realized it in one moment. She looked back on this moment, and talked about how after this year. Miss Lottie never grew marigolds again. But Lizabeth looks back at this time in her life, and she embodies Miss Lottie. Lizabeth then realizes you must look at the beauty in your life, and not the despair. “For one does not have to be ignorant and poor to find that his life is as barren as the dusty yards of our town. And I too have planted marigolds” (Collier 148). In a different period of time, Lizabeth gives back to Miss Lottie, even after she has passed, with a peace offering. Her marigolds. Her marigolds that Lizabeth grew now symbolize the hope that Miss Lottie had in the world in the future. Her marigolds were Miss Lottie’s. Even after her death, Lizabeth uses marigolds to make the legend of Miss Lottie live
She honored her parents as she should, but longed for them to pass. In the beginning of the story she said "I had never expected my parents to take so long to die.” She had taken care of them all of her life she was in her fifty’s and her parents in their ninety’s. She was ready to live and break free of all the rules and duties put upon her, they were like chains binding her and holding her down. She was ready to explore to go on journeys and adventures she was already aging all she wanted was to be free. Her parents’ death let her run free, she left Hong Kong to start over and maybe find love, in any way possible, maybe even through food or luxuries. She wanted to be rebellious of her parents I’m sure she knew they wouldn’t approve but she didn’t care she wanted change. All her life she had followed so many rules, she had to fight to teach, to learn, to be with friends, her fight was finally over. She now had no one to rebel against, she now had the freedom to
For example, Dee had refused to be timid and was determine to finish her education and have a better lifestyle, while Jing-mei had refused to follow her mother’s expectations. Dee’s mother had always remember that her daughter, Dee, “she was determined to stare down any disaster in her efforts . . .her eyelids would not flicker for minutes at a time”( Walker, Online). Her mother and sister, Maggie, were more timid and often follow the will of others. However, Dee was strong-will about making her own decisions; for example, she chooses to go to college and live in the city and never accepts no as an answer. Jing-mei refused to learn to play the piano and told her mother, “Why don’t you like me the way I am? I am not a genius”’ (Tan, pg 243). She was upset that her mother had never accepted her for who she is. For this reason, Jing-mei came to a breaking point because she was tired of her mother’s persistence of her to become a prodigy, after being told she must learn to play the piano. Jing-mei is similar to Dee by refusing to follow her mother’s expectations of her, like Dee who had refused to accept her old living situation. Therefore, they choose to make their own decision on how they want to live their
Dorothy found a pair of red slippers. The wicked witch of the west tried taking her slippers. They fought and fought. Everyone tried to stop the antagonist, the wicked witch of the west, before she stole the slippers. And finally in the end the wicked witch of the west melted away.
The witch is both vulnerable and a powerful figure. The resulting tension between power and powerlessness as a response to laws created by those in power, rather institutionalised power: men, can be seen as expressed through such binary metaphors as that of physical strength and beauty versus weakness and ugliness, kn...
Set in Scotland in a mythical time, a skilled archer and horse-rider Merida defies old custom by not behaving as a proper, ladylike princess and enjoying elegant pursuits. After having an argument with her mom Elinor, Merida finds a witch and makes reckless choice that results an unintended consequence. Similar to the situation in “The Chief’s Daughter”, Elinor makes choices that are intended to make her daughter better but results an unexpected consequence. What parents do not realize is that they have different perspective than their daughters. In this case, Elinor refuses to respect Merida’s strong aversion to marriage and compels her to follow the custom since it was how she was raised. Raised to accept the princess stereotype, she wants Merida to meet the high standards and be respected as a daughter of loyalty by accepting the custom. On the other hand, Merida has completely different perspective than her mother. Her free-spirited and rebellious nature wants her to have freedom and lives life fully in her own way. Therefore, unlike ordinary princesses, she takes matter into her own hands and goes to the witch house in search of solution to change her
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