Life’s Greatest Lesson
“Learn to live a little!” Most people have heard this expression, but learning to live isn’t to just stop taking life seriously, it’s about learning how to die. This aphorism of learning how to die is how you learn to live is used again, and again throughout the book, “Tuesdays with Morrie”. First, Morrie shows how he learned how to live after dealing with ALS, which will slowly kill him. Second, people who are afraid and scared of death are the ones who will have unsatisfied and envious lives. Finally, The fact of how learning to die also has people become less ambitious about their job and becoming really wealthy, but instead focusing more on personal connections and relationships. In “Tuesdays with Morrie”, Mitch Albom
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illustrates Morries most important lesson is “Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live.” (Albom, 82). First, “You strip away all that stuff and you focus on the essentials.
When you realize you are going to die, you see everything more differently.” (Albom, 83). For instance, Morrie doesn’t care as much about dying, but more about not being able to talk and help out others because of his ALS. “...living means I can be responsive to the other person. It means I can show my emotions and my feelings...When that is gone, Morrie is gone.” (Albom, 162). In particular, Morrie now only cares about the important questions and not death anymore, although he is dying. “Once you get your fingers on the important questions, you can't turn away from them...they have to do with love, responsibility, spirituality, awareness.” (Albom, 175). Specifically, Morrie’s house becomes a wealthy house of love and family, it has nothing to do with money, but because of all the students and colleges, and others the house changed drastically. “The day he learned he was terminally ill was the day he lost interest in his purchasing power...yet the house had changed so drastically. It had filled with love and teaching and communication.” (Albom, 126). In conclusion, Morrie changed once he realized he was going to die, and with that change, Morrie saw the world …show more content…
differently. Second, “If you’re always battling getting older, you’re always going to be unhappy, because it will happen anyhow.” (Albom, 119) Such as, if you realize that aging is not decay, but rather growth, and understand the positive that you are going to die, then you will have a better life.
“...if you've found meaning in your life, you don’t want to go back. You want to go forward. You want to see more, do more.” (Albom, 118). People can keep from envying others by finding what’s good in their age in the present and not envying younger people because you are aging, “You have to find what’s good and true and beautiful in your life as it is now.” (Albom, 120). To illustrate, everyone always grows older and has the thought of if it is their last day on Earth, this is something people become worried about. “It’s what everyone worries about, isn’t it? What if today was my last day on earth?” (Albom, 64). All in all, you are always going to get older, and you have to learn the growth and perks of being old instead of battling it, or you will always be
unhappy. Finally, “Death ends a life, not a relationship” (Albom, 172). In other words, when talking with other people you should always be fully talking to them not thinking other less important things in the outside world, and when you are dying this is easy to do. “When I'm talking to you now, Mitch, I try to keep focused only on what is going on between us. I am not thinking about something we said last week…” (Albom, 135). Also, money and power don’t make people love you and make you compassionate when you are dying you get rid of money and power because it doesn’t help your connection with others. “Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness.” (Albom, 125). Finally, When you die you see that everyone is alike, we all have the same beginning and end, so we aren’t so different. “Mitch we don’t believe we are as much alike as we are...If we saw each other as more alike, we might be very eager to join in one big human family in this world, and to care about that family the war we care about our own.” (Albom, 156). Summed up, Death doesn’t end a relationship, but dying rather strengthens relationships and gets rid of the need for wealth. Ultimately, the most important lesson in “Tuesdays with Morrie” is “Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live.” (Albom, 82). First, this is shown with how Morrie changes as a person and views life differently after getting ALS, which will kill him. Second, it’s expressed that the people who are scared about aging and death are the ones who have unsatisfied and envious lives. Third, the people who learn about death and how to die, are also the ones who stop worrying about money and power, but instead, focus on personal relationships. All in all, learning to live has less to do with living carelessly, but more about death.
For anger, in the mornings he will say to himself, “what in the hell did I do to deserve this!” He also becomes depressed and cries throughout the nights and into the mornings, but tells himself to stop. Morrie also accepts his death, and says many things such as “fear of death means life without meaning” and that he wants to be a living textbook.
Most of Tuesdays with Morrie consists of replays of conversations between Mitch and his former teacher, Morrie. This may seem like a pretty boring topic, yet Mitch Albom felt the need to write this book. Mitch could have easily just gone to visit his old professor, chatted with him, and left it at that. Why do you think that Mitch Albom felt the need to share his story? What do you spend money on and how can you save for things? What does society teach us about money, wealth, and greed?
I learned from the book that a former student reconnected with his old college professoi Morrie who was diagnosed with ALS (a terminal disease). Through their reconnection, Mitch and Morrie begin to meet every Tuesdays to discuss the different problems they face and the meaning of life. Also, choosing not to live his final months in fear. Morrie meditated on life and spread his ideas in the form of short aphorisms.
This paragraph has Morrie teaching on how to accept death and how it’s as important as living. Morrie is afraid of his inevitable death but he knows he has to accept it because it will come and there is also something about death that makes Morrie feel bad for other people like the when he is watching the news and sees people that are across
...you're bothered, because you wonder if this is the beginning of the end. It is, of course, but its decades before you admit it” (Gruen 5). Here Jacob is saying that people like to live in and think about their past ages and try to hold on to those instead of living in the present. People lose sight of what’s actually in front of them and usually waste their life way. Life passes to quickly; people need to just go after what they want so that they can live happily with a life filled with no regrets.
You have to live before you die, living meaning enjoying life no matter what gets in the way and making the best of both worlds. We all have lives, we need to live for ourselves and not to live them through pity and complaining all of the time. Living without the feeling of, “Oh my gosh, I wish this person would hurry up” or” I just got off of work and there is this lady in front of the gas pump on the phone, not pumping gas!” should be a moment to relax and think of what you are having for dinner
...himself from the experience" when he suffers his violent coughing spells, all of which could most possibly be his lasts breaths. Morrie get his method of detachment from the Buddhist philosophy: One should not cling to things, as everything that exists is impermanent. In detaching, Morrie is able to step out of his material surroundings and into his own type of world where he has time to relax and think more about the type of world that his loved ones live in. Morrie does not intend to stop feeling this detachment, but instead he wants to experience it wholly because it is only then that he is able to let go, to think about something other than the stressful situation that he is in. He does not want to die feeling upset, and in these frightening moments, he detaches himself so that he may accept the short span of his life and accept his death, which he knows may come at any time.
Morrie teaches that accepting death is okay and one should not fight it. Morrie’s opinion on the topic is that once one fully realizes that one is going to die one fully appreciates life and everything they have. One is fully alive. Morrie gives a lesson about death in this quote “ Once you learn how to die, you learn how to live” (Albom 82). i agree with it because if I knew I was going to die, I would be very appreciative of life and not material things, Death is a topic that i question about a lot. Why does it happen to good people more than
Some people spend their lives working towards the coming of their death, and their life thereafter, where others spend their lives doing everything they possibly can to make the most of their time on earth. In Tuesdays With Morrie by Mitch Albom, the lead character Morrie Schwartz was diagnosed with the fatal disease Lou Gerrig’s Disease, also known as ALS. Although many people would fall into a deep pit of self-loathing and regret, Morrie Schwartz took the opportunity to teach people about life and love. He surrounded himself with friends, and loved ones in his final days. Contrary to Morrie’s attitude, Lear, in William Shakespeare's King Lear, treats death as a negative thing in his life, fearing it, and running from it.
One of the quotes, “learn how to die and you learn to live”, is when Morrie realizes near the end of his life that his perspective of the world changed as his window in life grew smaller (Albom, 1997, p. 82). His view of life transformed into appreciating simple interactions with the people he loved and cherishing the moments of leaving behind a legacy when he accepted death. To me, this quote means to revel in the moment, treasure the present, live memorably, appreciate the people who mean the most to you, and to live life to the fullest. Another quote, “aging is not decay but growth”, is what Morrie was finally able to translate in the final chapters of his life (Albom, 1997, p. 118). Morrie felt a sense of fulfillment of his years in life and savors the time he has remaining as death looms closer.
Morrie’s message was, in short, not to become preoccupied with death and dying, but to live the life that you still have left in a meaningful and rewarding way. He believed that although death would soon take him, he wanted to teach others and share his ideas so that they could be passed on to future generations.
While reading Tuesday with Morrie by Mitch Albom, it is discovered that Professor Morrie Schwartz a genuine humble old man filled with life ends up being dignosed with a fatal disease called amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS) which targets the neourological system. Slowly losing his range of motion, Morrie tries to continue his life as normal as possible, As he lost his ability to walk without tripping, he purchased a cane to help him get by. When he is unable to undress himself, he finds someone to assist him the locker room so he can change in and out of his swimwear. Morrie is a man that refuses to give, only to find different techniques to get by. Accepting death, Morrie writes aphorisms about accepting life how it is. Inspiring many people with his
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As a young girl at 14, I used to reminisce about the future, how badly I wanted to grow up, to drive, to be popular in high school, go to college and land an amazing job, have a huge home, nice cars, and an extremely handsome husband. The older I got, the more I began to realize all of the things I once desired for were not what I truly wanted. I began to realize the value of happiness, adventure, and creating memories rather than the value of temporary popularity, material items, and physical appearances. What I realized was that when one is lying on their deathbed, because the only thing guaranteed in life is death, they will not think, “oh what a lovely car I drove” but rather, “I remember when I went on my first road trip with my friends.” As mentioned in “Tuesdays With Morrie” by Mitch Albom, Morrie emphasizes the idea, “once you learn how to die, you learn how to live,” meaning, remembering that one day we will all depart from this world, one will realize what it truly means to live. Another pointer that can essentially alter one’s vision of living life: to live simply, as discussed in “Where I Lived and What I Live For” by David Henry Thoreau. Although thinking about death is a harsh reality on a young teenager, it is rather helpful to wrap our heads around it at a young age. Why? because as one grows older, they will see more death. Living a simple life may seem boring to a young teenager, but as one grows older and their schedules become bustled with work, and responsibilities, they will wish that they could step back, and choose a simple lifestyle.
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