Torvald And Nora By Henrik Ibsen

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What it Takes to Have a Healthy Marriage

About 50 percent of marriages end in divorce in the United States. Why is that? Most relationships end because of the lack of simple fundamentals needed. Torvald and Nora from A Doll’s House by Henrik Ibsen, are prime examples of a relationship that ended, but could have been avoided. They lack key fundamentals to maintain a healthy marriage. The most important things to live by for a successful marriage would be honesty, communication, and commitment. Every marriage takes effort and dedication.
Honesty is the key to maintaining any type of relationship, especially a marriage. When a person breaks their partner’s trust, it causes worry and internal insecurities. Torvald and Nora in the story A Doll’s …show more content…

She is constantly lying to Torvald throughout the whole story. She says what she thinks Torvald wants to hear in order to please him. Lying about simple things like Nora has no effect on the progression of a relationship. It had eventually gotten so bad between the couple that others started noticing their struggles.
MRS. LINDE: Yes, in the first panic. But it’s been a whole day and night since then, and in that time I've seen such incredible things in the house. Helmer’s got to learn everything; this dreadful secret has to be aired; those two have to come to full understanding; all these lie and avasions can’t go on (Act 3).
Even Nora’s childhood best friend was aware of their problems as she was explaining to Krogstad. Honesty is a way of life, not just a behavior. Breaking the rule of honesty causes the loss of trust.
Anyone has the power to build a happy marriage by communicating. Lack of communication in relationships can magnify problems and make them worse. In the story Nora and Torvald lack basic communication. Torvald treats Nora as his doll and she does not do much to stop …show more content…

Her and her husband were never able to realize their issues because they were never brought up into conversation. She realized their problems could have been avoided if she had explained to Torvald how she was feeling. Communicating had been avoided so long with them Nora almost lost herself.

Commitment is the base of any marriage. Vowing to commit yourself to another person through sickness and health is what marriage is about. In the story, Torvald and Nora did not fully commit themselves to one another. After eight years of marriage Nora finally got the courage to explain to Torvald how she feels about how he treats her. Right after she did so she did not even hesitate to try to stay and work things out. She packed her bags and left Torvald and her kids. HELMER:But you are my wife, now and always?
NORA: Listen, Torvald: when a wife leaves her husband’s house, as I am doing, I have heard that in the eyes of the law he is free from all duties toward her. At any rate I release you from all duties. You must not feel yourself bound any more than I shall. There must be perfect freedom on both sides. There, there is your ring back. Give me mine (Act

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