The day of an average teenager consists of getting up in the morning, checking how many notifications he or she got on Facebook, posting a “selfie” on Instagram that was somehow shot in Mathematics, then ending the day tweeting about one’s absolute hatred of school and why it is a waste of time. But how are social networking sites making one’s life any better? What are one’s constant updates about their lives proving to the world? Do they make people happier or supplement people’s lives for the better? The use of social networking is expanding the ever growing narcissistic, solitary, and lazy society that the world is soon to become.
Social media is feeding the rising human ego. People are now becoming fuller of their selves thus hurting the world in return due to caring only about appearances than other major problems affecting the world. Elliot Panek, who recently received a doctorate in communication studies, makes an interesting point by stating, “Young people may overevaluate the importance of their own opinion” (Chan). Panek’s statement shows that Sally’s update on what she is wearing tomorrow is unimportant to the community who is reading her pointless statuses. How are one’s constant tweets about what they are eating or wearing helping solve the world’s problems? One says that they will be on for just five minutes but it turns into a horribly wasted two hours. These non-stop updates, instant checking of tweets, and looking at the endless streams of pictures are taking up precious time for one to make an actual difference in this world. It also seems that social networking, “fuels middle aged adults’ narcissistic tendencies by serving as a mirror where they can curate images of themselves” (Chan). Peopl...
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.... Case in put, society needs to make a difference and actually take a stand for the change this world so desperately needs. Social media may help achieve this, but one also must help the surrounding communities to actually make this change evident.
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