The Importance of Marriage Many people think that a wedding in a church is important so that the
people getting married are under the eyes of God and he will give then
the love and guidance against thing's like marital breakdown and to
give the couple the love and support for each other .
'The love of man and woman is made holy in the sacrament of marriage,
and becomes the mirror of your everlasting love', this quote literally
spell's out what the sacrament of marriage is for . Marriage is the
final sacrament of a catholic person's life, but marriage can only be
conceived in a church if one or both of the people receiving the
sacrament of marriage has had in this order a baptism, first communion
and is a confirmed catholic, then and only then can a marriage take
place in the house of God, marriage is a solemn contract between a man
and a woman who share love together.
There are many references to marriage and divorce in the bible most of
them coincide in the new testament in such chapters such as Matthew,
Mark, John, Corinthians and Ephesians . Most of the passages in new
testament really describe a man and a woman being faithful to each
other like Jesus was faithful to the church, for example in Ephseians
5 21-33, it was written ' wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as
to the lord . For your husband has authority over his wife just as
Christ has authority over the church; and Christ is himself the
saviour of the church, his body' , this states that a man is the base
of a marriage and his wife must be faithful to him as Christ was
faithful to the church as...
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... herrings of marital breakdown as
they are only granted in special situations.
Annulment
In the exceptional case of an annulment the church classifies the
marriage as unofficial and therefore not legal , there are 12 grounds
on which an annulment can be granted these include
* One of the partners not consenting to the marriage in the first
place
* One spouse not understanding the implications of what they were
doing when they married
* The marriage not being consummated - no sexual act took place
Separation
Though this is may be the most painful, but necessary answer to a
marriage that has become unfeasible. This can lead to a civil divorce
without any blame being dealt to either partner. In this way certain
legal rights, the care of the children and any inheritance can be
protected.
No matter where you are from, nation, ethnic background, religious background, or social class, marriage is a part of life. It doesn’t
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From the Catholic observation point, the Church presents two parts: One representing its divine nature as the untarnished body of Christ, and one direc...
is not always a wedding though. Sometimes the couple just figure things out and live a great, unmarried
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is the most usual in which a man and a woman unite themselves in the
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Love conquers everything. Or at least, that’s what Romeo and Juliet thought. But marriage and love can be complicated, and some argue that marrying someone who shares your religious beliefs can make things much easier. Is having the same religious and spiritual beliefs part of criteria many people use when seeking a marriage partner? It is strongly felt that the person they are going to marry should have the same traditions and customs, and intensity of belief as they themselves do. For them, it is an imperative part of marriage. A correlation exists between religious shared beliefs in marriage and marital satisfaction, although the nature of the relationship is not certain. History says that religion starts wars. If that is true, what will it do to a dual-religion marriage? This paper will discuss people’s views on why it is actually a major criterion to have a partner that has the same religious beliefs.
marriage is one of the most important institutions of the society. Each person in the
Church members should be able to use the church for weddings. Marriage is one of the most significant events of life, and it should be conducted with the blessings of the church. Young people contemplating marriage should know that their church wishes to join them in this special event. Each church should