The Importance Of Death In Life

There is one thing in this universe that no one can escape, that everyone fears, and makes people who are close to that person miserable, and that is death. Death is the worst thing that can ever happen to a person, and is just as terrible for the people who are close to them. There is an emptiness that comes with the passing of a loved one or someone close. That blankness in the world does something to the people who encompass that person who passed. It changes people, whether it is for better or worse. Death is a part of life and depending on how people are affected can dictate whether it will leave a positive or negative transformation to their life and that conversion happened to me with the passing of my beloved mother, Fran. I can recall

Until that point in time, I was not a self-reliant teenager; I had everything done for me. That all changed when she died, because I had to start ciphering things out for my own. I was no longer being catered to; I was being involuntarily forced to act like an adult now. In addition, this brought unwanted responsibility, which meant a tremendous reconstruction in my life, and it was a good formation occurring. I started to become independent in my journey through life, and was no longer dependent on everyone to do deeds for me like my mother once did. It was an extensive metamorphosis, and of course I battled it every step of the way, but the transformation occurred to be evident. The change did happen and I am delighted that I developed responsibilities, because it made me a sound and durable

Even though I will never be able to gaze into my mother’s brown eyes, listen to her laugh again, or feel her loving touch only a mother could have, I have transformed for the better. So in conclusion, death of a loved one can be a positive or negative, it all depends, and it is all determined by how someone looks at the situation. Someone can either look at the negatives, and have those negatives burden them. On the other hand, someone can find the positives even though they might be hard to discover in that tragic situation and make the instance a constructive one. That’s what I did, I found the positives in a terrible situation and tried to make the worst thing to happen in my life and convert it into a positive. That’s how I have moved on and how I have transformed into a better man, friend, and